The "CHECK IN HERE EVERY WEEK THREAD" to see who's still here or has died.

[habitualhealth]

cause its so fat and saggy?

exactly...and i've been training 3x a day to get rid of it.




i hope you choke on the next dik u suk.

 

[mountain muscle]

I'm dead...





Sexy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I'm dead...





Sexy.

Scotsman tell you that?

 

[mountain muscle]

Scotsman tell you that?

No, that was Jmo.

 

[Sub-Zero]

exactly...and i've been training 3x a day to get rid of it.




i hope you choke on the next dik u suk.

dont make fun of the fact that my gag reflex hasnt been bashed away like yours has

 

[biteme]

Alive and well. Just put in a 14 hour day... Pissed that I got home too late for sex.

 

[Arabian]

Alive and loving life

 

[Tatyana]

sexual liberation is all relative and different from person to person.

for someone, sexual liberation could be, going from not understanding its power and step down from handing it out to everyone to keeping as a more special and private and tame act.

and for someone else, sexual liberation could be going from prude and scared and sexually uncomfortable to being comfortable with sex/talking about it/doing it, etc.

what i think the problem is people need to be emotionally liberated.
problems iv noticed the most, are girls (guys too i guess) are too superficial. too worried about image. too condescending. too worried about image, status, and using others as a stepping stone. they cant let others simply "be".

this translates to relationship problems as one having to control the other....have one in power, rely on eachother for feeling mentally satisfied...instead of remaining your own person, doing your own thing, but still co-existing and loving eachother.

its always about whose gunna be cool to be seen with, whose going to buy you things, whose going to look sexy on your arm, or whatever.

i could be completely wrong though

I think if most people are honest with themselves, a lot of behaviour is all about image and looking good.

I would say that it is related to ego, and not having a well-developed 'healthy' ego means it is likely that peeps will seek external validation for themselves.

I like to look good, I find it really empowering, but it is not the most important thing.

I am not sure how old you are, you are quite astute.

All I can tell you is what my mom told me, life gets better as you get older.

I have been finding this to be true, I think my teens were the WORST time in my life, really YUCK, and probably due to some of the things you were talking about.

I have been a sciencey book geek (yet 'jock') most of my life, I didn't do all the girlie make-up etc stuff until I moved to Europe. My looking good used to be looking BAD

 

[Bikini Mod]

Who doesn't like to look good? I spent most of my life looking notsogood with no knowledge on how to change that, then of course, I got my head warped and trapped in eating disorders.... all of that changed when I gained proper knowlege of diet and training techniques.

I do agree with Sub and Tatyana that we run into problems when we worry more about what other people think than what it is that will make US happy.

There is no such thing as truth, but only perception. I gave up far too much of my power allowing others to define my reality by being "controlled" by THEIR PERCEPTIONS. It was REALLY COOL to turn those tables!!!

 

[dps1822]

I'm here just wasnt around for a minute cause some jack fried my computer...i'm all good now!!!