Someone analyze my habits with women

[layinback]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

you are being suspiciously honest. kinda like the serial killer who gets sloppy. but anywho, any good lookin guy with half a game can bed women. it takes a special s.o.b. to focus and crush emotionally.

 

[captainahole]

Things were so much easier when all I worried about was getting a chocolate eclair from the ice cream man and buying a box of football cards by saving up my allowance.

Those people are still around they're called gamers

 

[the_clockwork]

Getting Married isn't going to solve any issues though, that's not a good way out. It takes considerably more work than chasing ass.

Agreed though, that chasing ass gets really fucking old. How many fucking threeways can one get on video tape? WIll this void in me ever be filled? Ever? Help! lol

lololol I was being a jokester!

 

[Bikini Mod]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

Simple... sounds to me like you are becoming a MAN.

But also realize that when a woman feels a connection early on and that connection is returned that doesnt mean that she is *easy*. It might just mean that she in control of her sex.

 

[rudeboyja]

chasing ass gets old.

going out, having fun, being a jackass and not really caring about the outcome and getting laid anyways is always awesome.

my blueprint = male slut for the next 6-7 years, enjoy being single w/ little obligations and having a little bit of $$. possibly date the rare catches for a little bit

then..slow down, meet my wife through a mutual friend (most good marriages i know have happened this way)

Gets old in what lifetime??

I hear you though, most dudes get to a point where they think they've soiled their wild oats (is that the right expression??"oats"). Not everyone though.

 

[swole]

Bro?

Seriously. Which one is it? That's a totally conflicting statement and says alot about your behavior with these girls.

Or perhaps you drop them before things get physical, because you fear they will reject you as a result of being physical with you. As backup to this theory - you won't take off your shirt in front of others despite your jackedness. Maybe ur scared to let them see ur body. Maybe that's why you work out all the time when 99% of schmos are all to happy to expose their nasty bodies to girls - you are still fearfull even though you take care of urself. Body dismorphia?

Another great insight, but when it's time to get physical I love nothing more than ripping off my shirt and having the girl dig her fingers/nails/teeth into my body. I just don't like showing it off to people I don't give a shit about (in person - obviously we like to show off our work to a fitness forum )

I've never been rejected after getting physical either...I think I fear having them get more attached, which is why I run before it gets to that point...to make things easier for the both of us.

 

[rudeboyja]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

In other words you're tryin to get in her mind instead of vagina. I think it's a control thing..

 

[calveless wonder]

Gets old in what lifetime??

I hear you though, most dudes get to a point where they think they've soiled their wild oats (is that the right expression??"oats"). Not everyone though.

you misinterpreted what i said

 

[needtogetaas]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

you doing pct now bro...

 

[rudeboyja]

you misinterpreted what i said

No I hear you and am not disagreeing because you nailed many of my fallen friends. I just personally imagine it gettin old.