Someone analyze my habits with women

[swole]

Oh I gotcha, I misread it the first time..

Maybe you have abandonment issues and you find abandoning them before they abandon you is a fulfillment in your life.

Hmm, good insight...but I never had a girl abandon me nor fear it. When a girl comes into my world she never wants to leave and she gets annoying. As with most peeps, I do hate rejection...especially when I can't get a girl to drop her guard. Or call me back. Fack.

 

[the_clockwork]

Kinda like how I am gonna cheat on every ho I ever date from this point forward in my life to repay that bitch for her lack of loyalty when that was all I ever gave every woman I ever dated?


Like that?


Sorta?

very similiar but completely unrelated

 

[calveless wonder]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

dude, you and i are very similar. There's no reason to beat yourself up for that. You want something deeper that most guys don't....and absolutely the emotional connection is much stronger than the physical. althogh the physical is a very important element if like you said, you want something long term.
Any guy can get in a girls pants if her guard is down, but it takes something powerful to get into her mind.

you're just a different point in your life. you want someone of high value, and you're not willing to settle really. I was like that most of my life...and i turned down alot of girls back in early high school/college. my friends used to bust my balls and wouldn't get it, especially since some of the girls were really attractive...but personality wise, they were meh. i want it all....and i've thought i've had it, but i was wrong.

far as giving up early, if you want a real relationship, that's always a huge thing. however, if you're erally good at establishing a connection time is irrelevant. chicks have thier own internal timeline..which obviosuly can be sped up or down depending on your actions and how tight your game is.

i will tell you this though, i regret that attitude in 1 aspect. having sex frequently = sexual confidence and carries over to other girls you meet. since i stopped being as picky now that i'm single again i noticed that big time

 

[swole]

Things were so much easier when all I worried about was getting a chocolate eclair from the ice cream man and buying a box of football cards by saving up my allowance.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

building a meaningful relationship is more important than conquering anything

 

[the_clockwork]

just get married

chasing ass gets old

 

[Smurfy]

Things were so much easier when all I worried about was getting a chocolate eclair from the ice cream man and buying a box of football cards by saving up my allowance.

I always said if I could go back to any point in time, it would be when I was 7 or 8. man, what a life.

 

[jh1]

Hmm, good insight...but I never had a girl abandon me nor fear it. When a girl comes into my world she never wants to leave and she gets annoying. As with most peeps, I do hate rejection...especially when I can't get a girl to drop her guard. Or call me back. Fack.

Bro?

Seriously. Which one is it? That's a totally conflicting statement and says alot about your behavior with these girls.

Or perhaps you drop them before things get physical, because you fear they will reject you as a result of being physical with you. As backup to this theory - you won't take off your shirt in front of others despite your jackedness. Maybe ur scared to let them see ur body. Maybe that's why you work out all the time when 99% of schmos are all to happy to expose their nasty bodies to girls - you are still fearfull even though you take care of urself. Body dismorphia?

 

[jh1]

just get married

chasing ass gets old

Getting Married isn't going to solve any issues though, that's not a good way out. It takes considerably more work than chasing ass.

Agreed though, that chasing ass gets really fucking old. How many fucking threeways can one get on video tape? WIll this void in me ever be filled? Ever? Help! lol

 

[calveless wonder]

chasing ass gets old.

going out, having fun, being a jackass and not really caring about the outcome and getting laid anyways is always awesome.

my blueprint = male slut for the next 6-7 years, enjoy being single w/ little obligations and having a little bit of $$. possibly date the rare catches for a little bit

then..slow down, meet my wife through a mutual friend (most good marriages i know have happened this way)