Someone analyze my habits with women

[swole]

look its one thing to keep things exciting between the to of you...I have sex 5 times a week at a min thats not the problem.its when you have no other life and
women bleed you of every person,place or thing you used to do,and it becomes just you and her an if you try to have anything else in your life your an asshole.
thats how it ends up.you ether stay home sitting next to her and you better fucking like doing it to or well there is no other chose.no going out,no friends,no
fucking nothing,no having friends come over because there scared off by your wife.............why the fuck do you think I spend every god dame min of my life on this comp talking to people here....yes my life is pathetic.

Dude that's not what I consider healthy. Healthy is letting your S/O go out every now and then, to be him/herself. I'm not talking about clubs, I'm talking about poker night, a football game, a fishing trip. As long as you're with eachother when the night's over...everything is golden. You need to have a certain level of independence and trust.

And who says you can't do things outside the house you enjoy with her? Shit, there are plenty of girls who love to fish, play poker, watch football. This is exactly why I'm picky...I don't want to be miserable later on.

 

[Nathan]

OK, you know how most men consider having sex with a woman "conquering" her?

Well, hear me out. When I chase a woman, when I really pull out all the stops and she drops her guard, I don't need to sleep with her to feel like I got somewhere. I feel as if breaking through the wall and having her invest emotion in me is more powerful than anything physical. Just knowing I can have it is good enough for me. My friends always make fun of me because a lot of the times I stop talking to the girl before we have sex. It seems as if I have deep emotional and acceptance issues. I mean obviously there are those girls I end up having sexual relations with, but lately I've been holding out unless I see long term potential. I get kinda disappointed when the chic gives it up early. What I really want is for me and the girl to invest emotion and trust...THEN have sex...not the other way around.

Took me until I hit like...a few months ago until I started to somewhat feel like that. And I finally met a girl who was all, "I don't do casual sex. As much as I want to with you, I don't want to find us in a situation where we haven't developed our relationship at all and can't get past an entirely sex-based relationship." I was like whoa. Damn. I used to make that mistake all the time and was getting really sick of it because it's like initiating an automatic self-destruct sequence in the relationship. My body can't be trained to constantly have an erection around a girl - it was at the point where certain girls I'd just instinctively have wood around ALL the time. I couldn't even control it. It was like yeah, this won't work.

 

[needtogetaas]

sorry I killed your thread swole.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

chasing ass gets old.

going out, having fun, being a jackass and not really caring about the outcome and getting laid anyways is always awesome.

my blueprint = male slut for the next 6-7 years, enjoy being single w/ little obligations and having a little bit of $$. possibly date the rare catches for a little bit

then..slow down, meet my wife through a mutual friend (most good marriages i know have happened this way)

Hopefully you won't have the vd by then.

 

[heatherrae]

Paniky, not at all. Heather when I don't feel a girl measures up it's not for some petty issue. It's because she is lacking something that I NEED a partner to have...like a sense of humor, direction, or passion. Why should I settle for someone who doesn't get or appreciate me? There are women I know right now I would love to be with...but the timing is off. I need a woman to be my best friend and lover. I need a down ass bitch who gets me...not some squeemish girl who wrinkles her brow at my occasional deviant behavior (not with her, with other things in life).

Well, you created this thread for a reason, didn't you? You must feel something is "off."

 

[foreigngirl]

Dude that's not what I consider healthy. Healthy is letting your S/O go out every now and then, to be him/herself. I'm not talking about clubs, I'm talking about poker night, a football game, a fishing trip. As long as you're with eachother when the night's over...everything is golden. You need to have a certain level of independence and trust.

And who says you can't do things outside the house you enjoy with her? Shit, there are plenty of girls who love to fish, play poker, watch football. This is exactly why I'm picky...I don't want to be miserable later on.

The best thing is that they come back happy at home and start being so lovelly to you...just for the fact that you dont care that they are not at your leg at all times and that you give them a bit of personal space. It makes people even closer

 

[swole]

Well, you created this thread for a reason, didn't you? You must feel something is "off."

So basically you're assuming I'm "off" in the head because I want some feedback on my thoughts and expectations? In my opinion the people who don't see where I'm coming from are "off."

 

[swole]

to quote my man biggie

stay far from timid

only make moves when you're heart's in it

and live the phrase sky's the limit

motherfucker

 

[heatherrae]

So basically you're assuming I'm "off" in the head because I want some feedback on my thoughts and expectations? In my opinion the people who don't see where I'm coming from are "off."

Jesus, Mr. Sensitive, I didn't say YOU were "off in the head." I said you must feel that something is "off" meaning feeling something in your situation is amiss, askew, etc. You seemed like you were asking for advice or feedback for a situation that doesn't seem quite right to you.

Jesus Christ, why is everyone on this board so defensive and touchy with me?

 

[Phaded]

didn't have sex with my current wife until we were 3 years into our relationship.