so I'm in the hog house...

[EarthRider]

sounds like it's time for you to set hubby straight. tell him how fucking annoying it is when you dont leave him alone. if i did that to my wife, or she did that to me - neither of us would be ok with it. we never married each other to feel like we are now owned by the other, we still have freedom to do our own thing.

 

[shirlene29]

thats why I didn't answer the phone...because I had made it very clear that I was going out, when I'd be home, and that unless there was an emergency I did not want to be contacted and that I wouldn't be tolerating him pushing me around about it

because its not like he's suddenly doing this...this has been an ongoing theme
when he met me I went out every weekend...and uhh...as you'll read in a previous post how much I've cut back on it to appease him
well frankly...I'd like some compromise back because I'm getting a helluva lot o resentful with being micromanaged

I also refuse to be told who I can and can not be friends with

 

[lander2312]

Maybe I am weird but I really have no desire to go out without my wife. She is my best friend and I have a blast with her when we go out on the town or just a weekend working in the yard.

 

[EarthRider]

thats why I didn't answer the phone...because I had made it very clear that I was going out, when I'd be home, and that unless there was an emergency I did not want to be contacted and that I wouldn't be tolerating him pushing me around about it

because its not like he's suddenly doing this...this has been an ongoing theme
when he met me I went out every weekend...and uhh...as you'll read in a previous post how much I've cut back on it to appease him
well frankly...I'd like some compromise back because I'm getting a helluva lot o resentful with being micromanaged

I also refuse to be told who I can and can not be friends with

well i have to agree with you except for bold. you do have to be careful. i wouldn't want my wife hanging out with a bunch of guys all the time. but i went into a marriage with somoene and that was already understood. just like i don't go hang out with chics by my self. but we made that understood before.

I do feel like it's a problem that your hubby is trying to control you like that. i dont blame you for not answering your phone. he needs to back off, and make it clear things aren't going to keep working if he doesn't.

 

[nimbus]

as far as being attracted to the co-worker..no
I think the dudes fun as hell and has been an excellent friend to me...but hes seriously like 6'4" and 160 lbs..not my sexy scene at all

sorry miplank

 

[smurf2]

Shirl, i get the feeling that you don't really like your husband very much

 

[shirlene29]

meh

life has its up and downs

 

[theoak01]

thats why I didn't answer the phone...because I had made it very clear that I was going out, when I'd be home, and that unless there was an emergency I did not want to be contacted and that I wouldn't be tolerating him pushing me around about it

because its not like he's suddenly doing this...this has been an ongoing theme
when he met me I went out every weekend...and uhh...as you'll read in a previous post how much I've cut back on it to appease him
well frankly...I'd like some compromise back because I'm getting a helluva lot o resentful with being micromanaged

I also refuse to be told who I can and can not be friends with

my wife is like this,you get tired of this crap quickly, I guess the only difference is he will fuck you,so you have no reason to cheat.

still blows

 

[needtogetaas]

went out last night solo
wound up running into co-worker guy that husband doesn't like and got blasted with him and did a lil bar hoppin with him

refused to answer the phone when hubby called while I was out...was home before the bar closed
was NOT up to no good..behaved fine..just had drinks with a friend and hung out with some new peeps
everyone was pretty fun..and I literally go out by myself for a cpl of hrs like twice a yr...so it doesn't take much to entertain me

came home...things were mostly smoothed over before I fell asleep cuz hubby was awake waiting for me (doh)
got woken up at 6 am by husband flipping out on me cuz he went through my phone and saw a txt message I didn't know was on there that said "be safe" cuz I drove my car home after shutting myself off at midnight and drinking like 9 pints of water.


am I in the wrong here bros?
discuss

p.s. "standing bow" in the middle of a crowded bar as a self sobriety test turns out rather interestingly

who pays the phone bill???

 

[shirlene29]

me...its my phone, my phone bill