so I'm in the hog house...

[needtogetaas]

Interesting.

 

[shirlene29]

you gonna expound on that?

 

[needtogetaas]

you gonna expound on that?

I hadn't planed on it

 

[cindylou]

A little jealousy is okay; its better than total apathy

Too much is just unattractive

I don't know how jealous your husband is on a regular basis

I was never a jealous person; I still don't think I am but an unanswered phone call that is never returned...no text... brings up weird feelings now. Like...a pain in the pit of my stomach, like I starting thinking about ending it right away. I see both sides because I think too much jealousy can push you away more but I know I couldn't handle being with someone that primarily hung out with women because I don't know how much I could tolerate controlling whatever jealousy might come up...idk?

Hope you're not in the doghouse anymore

 

[javaguru]

thats why I didn't answer the phone...because I had made it very clear that I was going out, when I'd be home, and that unless there was an emergency I did not want to be contacted and that I wouldn't be tolerating him pushing me around about it

because its not like he's suddenly doing this...this has been an ongoing theme
when he met me I went out every weekend...and uhh...as you'll read in a previous post how much I've cut back on it to appease him
well frankly...I'd like some compromise back because I'm getting a helluva lot o resentful with being micromanaged

I also refuse to be told who I can and can not be friends with

You engaged in a social contract; Abide by the terms or break it. A marriage has never been about love...it's about mutual advantage like every business relationship.

"As for myself, I do not hesitate to avow that although the women of the United States are confined within the narrow circle of domestic life, and their situation is in some respects one of extreme dependence, I have nowhere seen woman occupying a loftier position; and if I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply: To the superiority of their women. "

-De Toqueville

 

[shirlene29]

ya I'm not

and if he hung out with all women when I met him and he continued to do that, I'd have to accept it as his thing
well...thats how its gone...Ive had all male friends pretty much my entire life
a lot of them have become friends with Greg
this particular guy hes irrational about and hes never given me a good reason

his own brother has told him he's nuts with the jealousy..so idk
and I dont hang out with a bunch of guys all the time....Ive literally been out 5 times in 8 yrs without my husband..one of those times was with his brother, once with a female coworker/friend and the rest of the time with the afore mentioned male bestie that my husband is 100% fine with cuz the guy is like my brother (been friends with the guy for 16 years)

 

[shirlene29]

You engaged in a social contract; Abide by the terms or break it. A marriage has never been about love...it's about mutual advantage like every business relationship.

"As for myself, I do not hesitate to avow that although the women of the United States are confined within the narrow circle of domestic life, and their situation is in some respects one of extreme dependence, I have nowhere seen woman occupying a loftier position; and if I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply: To the superiority of their women. "

-De Toqueville

stop trolling wife beater

 

[brownbrown]

You engaged in a social contract; Abide by the terms or Get the shit Choked out of you In My Opinion. A marriage has never been about love...it's about mutual advantage like every business relationship.

"As for myself, I do not hesitate to beat the hell out of a Woman, when I have the advantage "

-JavaGuru

Booooo On YOU giving marriage advice.

 

[javaguru]

Booooo On YOU giving marriage advice.

I've been married and I know what doesn't work.

 

[javaguru]

stop trolling wife beater

I've never laid a hand on a date, girlfriend, wife or any female in my family. I've been married once and her assessment was that I was the kindest person she ever knew....

Stop getting your propaganda from people off their meds.

Finally, I'm giving you good advice...I know that I'm not the marrying type because I have always had one foot out the door;If you're lusting after some random guy then you have a bad marriage...Even at the worst times no woman could tempt me away from Shelagh.