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Would your wife go out to the bar and get drunk with dudes you dont like, without you?
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EarthRider
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no she wouldn't
that is the one thing i did say i feel sheryl screwed up. it does sound like she did it before she married him though. Nothing against shiryl, but i wouldn't have married melissa if she was wanting to go party with dudes at the bar. i don't care if she hangs out with her gf's though. i don't feel it's right to marry someone and then expect them to change for you after
silent says
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I would have already dropped you off.Or maybe you should leave him.
thing is smurf...if he didn't refuse to do it...I would gladly hang out with the dude WITH GREG..that I ran in to btw and didn't intentionally go out with.
Its not like I have anything to hide and wouldn't care
he has hung out with me and other co-workers that he doesn't have a problem with and everyone has had a good time
he's dropped into work to say hi, bring me a coffee or have lunch with me at work (he works three miles up the road) and has talked to everyone there. They all think hes a good guy and go out of their way to chat him up.
if the guy he hated made a pass at me..I wouldn't be friends with him anymore. But he's irrational about it so I won't just drop a friend because he doesn't like the way the guy looks.
anyway, we talked about it at length yesterday and both made some concessions...will something flair up in the future? probably but I've made a lot of compromises in my behavior over the years and rarely take a stand on something. To me this a slippery slop I won't concede.
Things have been fine after we've talked.
Its not like I have anything to hide and wouldn't care
he has hung out with me and other co-workers that he doesn't have a problem with and everyone has had a good time
he's dropped into work to say hi, bring me a coffee or have lunch with me at work (he works three miles up the road) and has talked to everyone there. They all think hes a good guy and go out of their way to chat him up.
if the guy he hated made a pass at me..I wouldn't be friends with him anymore. But he's irrational about it so I won't just drop a friend because he doesn't like the way the guy looks.
anyway, we talked about it at length yesterday and both made some concessions...will something flair up in the future? probably but I've made a lot of compromises in my behavior over the years and rarely take a stand on something. To me this a slippery slop I won't concede.
Things have been fine after we've talked.
I think that is good Shirl. Sounds like his jealousy is his problem and its about him, not you. If you change your behavior too much I don't think its going to stop because its not really about what you do, its more about him. If you rarely go out he needs to chill, imo and just sweat it out every once in awhile, for your sake.
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EarthRider
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and i also think if going out is important to you, you should start doing it more often. you only live once and should enjoy life
mrplunkey
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Look at all the circumstances surrounding this situation -- forget the specifics of male/female or the fact that it's Shirl (who I personally really like):
1) Married couple with "ups and downs" relationship
2) One spouse decides to go out to a bar specifically to drink and socialize (it's not like it's to entertain a customer)
3) Declares they won't be home till late (2am is late in my book)
4) Person going out is using AAS that A) Can interrupt a person's sense of attachment and B) Dramatically increase libido
5) Person going out is hanging-out with someone the spouse doesn't like specifically for possible compatibility reasons
6) Alcohol consumption is at least great enough to delay drive home
7) Person going out doesn't answer phone calls
8) Innocuous "be safe" text on person going out's cell phone the next day.
Now if we're only dealing with 1, 2, 4 or even 5 of these circumstances, it may be paranoia. But all eight?
And here's a question specifically for the ladies:
1) Picture your man.
2) Now give him a healthy dose of gear. Enough to make him edgy and really horny.
3) Now picture your arch rival. That bitch you keep coming across who doesn't like you and would screw your guy just to make a point to you.
4) Now place your guy with your arch rival at a bar with lots of alcohol involved.
Are you going to at least call him or text him, or can they do shots and have fun till 2:00am?
1) Married couple with "ups and downs" relationship
2) One spouse decides to go out to a bar specifically to drink and socialize (it's not like it's to entertain a customer)
3) Declares they won't be home till late (2am is late in my book)
4) Person going out is using AAS that A) Can interrupt a person's sense of attachment and B) Dramatically increase libido
5) Person going out is hanging-out with someone the spouse doesn't like specifically for possible compatibility reasons
6) Alcohol consumption is at least great enough to delay drive home
7) Person going out doesn't answer phone calls
8) Innocuous "be safe" text on person going out's cell phone the next day.
Now if we're only dealing with 1, 2, 4 or even 5 of these circumstances, it may be paranoia. But all eight?
And here's a question specifically for the ladies:
1) Picture your man.
2) Now give him a healthy dose of gear. Enough to make him edgy and really horny.
3) Now picture your arch rival. That bitch you keep coming across who doesn't like you and would screw your guy just to make a point to you.
4) Now place your guy with your arch rival at a bar with lots of alcohol involved.
Are you going to at least call him or text him, or can they do shots and have fun till 2:00am?
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EarthRider
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i would agree lunk, but it sounds like he is always freaking out on her
mrplunkey
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And P.S.
Guy texts "be safe" to a drunk girl on her way home
Translation:
"It's not too late to text me that you're too drunk to drive. At that point I will meet up with you, play knight in white armor for about 15 minutes, and then either take you back to my place or nail you in the back seat of my car. But either way, if you text me back I'll do my dead-level best to fuck you. Enjoy!"
Guy texts "be safe" to a drunk girl on her way home
Translation:
"It's not too late to text me that you're too drunk to drive. At that point I will meet up with you, play knight in white armor for about 15 minutes, and then either take you back to my place or nail you in the back seat of my car. But either way, if you text me back I'll do my dead-level best to fuck you. Enjoy!"
