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Turd Ferguson
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See my post above for how to. I'm serious it works.
Lestat said:
Don't will, just make it so, today.
Don't try, it is or it isn't. You decide which one it is.
I am sure there was one day for example, when you were thinking about walking up and asking a chick out... The times it worked, you did not think about it, or try, or anything else... you just made up your mind how it was going to be and you just made it happen... in that one second, in your mind... and then the outside world change because of that event in your head...
this is a similar point in the road... either you will pick her (which you are doing now), or you will pick you and move on...
that is what I am talking about... just make it so... now, today... make the decision and don't ever look back...
i am pretty sure you understand this...
Bran987 said:
no, but I did take some LSD... lol.... I just believe self-fulfilling prophecy.... I maybe do a little visualization, but not cause anyone ever told me to, I just always have... If you believe something will happen, it will happen... If you believe enough, anything is possible (of course taken to an extreme this is where mental divergence comes in and then you are crazy)
If I was in the matrix I would have kicked neo's ass all over the joint...
Lao Tzu
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Goddamn Brian, in the 2 years i've been reading your posts i've never seen you depressed or vulnerable. 
Naturally I love to dispense advice on EF, but i have no real experience in this field. I know that the other guys here who have been there like Goldendelicious, Bran987 and AAP can show you which paths you should avoid and which you should take.
On another note, its very nice that you virtually never get depressed. I know know if this helps but form what i've read about it depression is a trick the mind uses to help you get past problems. When you have a problem you become depressed so you lose interest in all aspects of life other than your problem. Sex, eating, socializing, school, family, etc. they all lose importance and you spend all your time focusing on your problem. The mood was 'supposed' to make you find a solution by giving you nothing else to think about but the problem and its solution. However it doesn't always work (it virtually never works if you ask me), hence the fact that the world is filled with 70 year olds who are depressed because of stuff that happened when they were 8. Also alot of people just suffer in misery instead of finding solutions to their problems instead when they are depressed. However it sometimes works, and it may have helped you when you were about to flunk out of college by doing this (making you lose interest in everything but finding a solution to that problem).
It seems like you already know what the solution is though, you just need to implement it and get accustomed to it.
I don't know if you are like me and enjoy using pharmacology to manipulate your brain out of this state but you can try it to see if it helps. SAM-e taken with drugs that are dopamine and norepinephrine agonists will probably let you handle this better.
But we both know you wont feel like this forever, just until you can accept what your new life is going to be like.
Naturally I love to dispense advice on EF, but i have no real experience in this field. I know that the other guys here who have been there like Goldendelicious, Bran987 and AAP can show you which paths you should avoid and which you should take.
On another note, its very nice that you virtually never get depressed. I know know if this helps but form what i've read about it depression is a trick the mind uses to help you get past problems. When you have a problem you become depressed so you lose interest in all aspects of life other than your problem. Sex, eating, socializing, school, family, etc. they all lose importance and you spend all your time focusing on your problem. The mood was 'supposed' to make you find a solution by giving you nothing else to think about but the problem and its solution. However it doesn't always work (it virtually never works if you ask me), hence the fact that the world is filled with 70 year olds who are depressed because of stuff that happened when they were 8. Also alot of people just suffer in misery instead of finding solutions to their problems instead when they are depressed. However it sometimes works, and it may have helped you when you were about to flunk out of college by doing this (making you lose interest in everything but finding a solution to that problem).
It seems like you already know what the solution is though, you just need to implement it and get accustomed to it.
I don't know if you are like me and enjoy using pharmacology to manipulate your brain out of this state but you can try it to see if it helps. SAM-e taken with drugs that are dopamine and norepinephrine agonists will probably let you handle this better.
But we both know you wont feel like this forever, just until you can accept what your new life is going to be like.
Thanks man, that was heartfelt and appreciated.nordstrom said:Goddamn Brian, in the 2 years i've been reading your posts i've never seen you depressed or vulnerable.
Naturally I love to dispense advice on EF, but i have no real experience in this field. I know that the other guys here who have been there like Goldendelicious, Bran987 and AAP can show you which paths you should avoid and which you should take.
On another note, its very nice that you virtually never get depressed. I know know if this helps but form what i've read about it depression is a trick the mind uses to help you get past problems. When you have a problem you become depressed so you lose interest in all aspects of life other than your problem. Sex, eating, socializing, school, family, etc. they all lose importance and you spend all your time focusing on your problem. The mood was 'supposed' to make you find a solution by giving you nothing else to think about but the problem and its solution. However it doesn't always work (it virtually never works if you ask me), hence the fact that the world is filled with 70 year olds who are depressed because of stuff that happened when they were 8. Also alot of people just suffer in misery instead of finding solutions to their problems instead when they are depressed. However it sometimes works, and it may have helped you when you were about to flunk out of college by doing this (making you lose interest in everything but finding a solution to that problem).
It seems like you already know what the solution is though, you just need to implement it and get accustomed to it.
I don't know if you are like me and enjoy using pharmacology to manipulate your brain out of this state but you can try it to see if it helps. SAM-e taken with drugs that are dopamine and norepinephrine agonists will probably let you handle this better.
But we both know you wont feel like this forever, just until you can accept what your new life is going to be like.
I liked the explanation of depression. I have a degree in psychology but never once heard that. My studies were more focused on the cures from a pharmacological standpoint and the causes, but not the biopsychological mechanisms.
Anyway, I feel a lot better today then I did last night. Of course I've been at work and had a lot to do and that always helps, but I'm focusing on the future more and more everyday.
