This is almost another subject.
It's how you were brought up, the morals and codes you were computed with as a child and more importantly, as a teenager.
I brought myself up from the age of 16, hence I live by my rules and my codes of conduct, not others.
This doesn't fit in with 99% of females, I simply don't have the hang-ups of most of the population because I don't think that way, but to be honest I couldn't give shit because the most important thing in life is to enjoy it and be yourself.
The way I view it is, every girl wants to sleep with me, whether she knows it or not, if she doesn't then she's obviously mentally deficient, and I don't copulate with the mentally handicapped.
It’s simple like that.
I don't bring it into the house, the wife half accepts that.
If she came to me today and said she'd met an arty farty type that would suit her better than I'd be more than happy for her, I'd want to be at the wedding and I'd wish her all the best.
My personal freedom is above anything else.