Question about ending my relationship

[B0ARDIN087]

So basicly my girlfriend sucked ass all summer. It became long distance and basicly she didn't want to try and make it work even tho we were still dating. So we got in fights alot and eventually it led to us taking a break after the last time i came to see her (2 weeks ago). She said she wanted to get back togther when we went back to school and it wasn't about guys and stuff and i toold her i can give her space but if you hook up with a guy its probably over. Long story short i asked her today and she said she kissed a guy for 2 min when she was drunk. IM sure this is all that happened but at this point in the relationship i couldn't even look at another girl. I was shaky about whether i wanted to get back with her because of the fact that she basicly turned off for th summer. she says her reason for this is that she has been in some form of a relationship for 4 years and shes 20 and she was sick of having someone to answer to. Is it stupid to count that kiss as a complete deal breaker?

Furhtermore her birthday is the 11th of august and i already spent 260 dollars on Broadway tickets and 200 dollars on airfare. Should I go or should i try to sell the tickets. I really dont think i could look at her the same way anymore but this happened an hour ago so i not sure. Also things are always perfect when we are together and im afriad of seeing her and falling back into things. Help!!!

 

[Jon79]

don't go

 

[jack sparrow]

Seek your inner KB, and you won't have problems like this.

 

[jh1]

She's cheating on you, bro.

 

[DannoMight]

Anytime they need "space" or "time apart" its to make space for the other guy or time to be with the other guy.

 

[rubberneck]

Listen to these guy, they telling you truth!

 

[swole]

I know it's a lot harder to do and see from your perspective, but a break would be the best thing for both of you. She needs to sow her wild oats, so to speak. Tell her you know she's not in the state of mind to put you #1 and that you want to take a step back. You might grow apart but you will also learn a lot in the process.

Sell the tickets and end it now...she needs time to grow. If you don't allow her to do so she will resent you even more in the future.

 

[-SD-]

Didnt you post about this a while back about how it was going to be a LD relationship for the summer then get back together for school? I believe I and others said to drop her ass back then. Go ahead and do that now.

 

[swole]

boardin how about you give me some crowns?

 

[Sub-Zero]

if your questioning it then its done. sell your tickets and move on.

maybe when you guys start going to school agian and you meet a few other girls and "kiss another girl for 2 minutes" youl be on even ground again and you will be able to make it work, if thats what you guys even want.