My GF did coke this weekend and lied to me about it should I get rid of her?

[manny78]

she cheated on you, she should already be dead IMO: the Glock rule my friend. Make her life easier, ask her to take 10 g in one day. That 1k you'll spend will be worth your money....

 

[Tarheel]

cut her off, kick her to the curb, drop it like its hot

whatever you wish to call it, get her out of your life

 

[KAYNE]

LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT:

SHE LIES TO YOU, WORKS IN A SCRIP CLUB (EITHER A COCKTAIL SERVER OR SCRIPPER, IT DONT MATTER), HAS FUCKED ANOTHER DUDE BEHIND YOUR BACK AND LIED ABOUT IT, LIES TO YOU, DOES COKE AND LIES ABOUT IT, LIES TO YOU, AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST, LIES TO YOU. THAT ABOUT SUMS IT UP RIGHT!!!


WELL DUDE, I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT YOU ARE AN IDIOT TO STAY WITH HER. I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE ON THIS ONE. I WAS WITH A CHICK THAT I COULDNT TRUST. SHE WAS GREAT FOR A WHILE BUT THEN REVERTED BACK TO HER OLD WAYS. SHE ALSO DID COKE ONE NIGHT AND LIED TO ME ABOUT IT. I TOLD HER IF SHE EVER DID IT AGAIN I WOULD BREAK HER NOSE AND SHE WOULD NVR SNIFF ANYTHING AGAIN.

GET RID OF HER. NO MATTER HOW GOOD THE PUSSY IS OR WHO FINE SHE IS. IT AINT WORTH IT.



KAYNE

 

[FlexsGrl123]

Been with this girl for 2 years now, she is 23, I am 30 she lives with me and for the most part we get along fine. Problem is, SHE IS A LYING BITCH, as I have found out most women are.
I have a severe problem with trusting this one, 3 mo's after we started going out we got into a fight about something and she ran off and fucked another guy. Her friends all told me what she had done and she denied it completely even though I could tell she was lying.
Finally I called the guy she nailed and found out the truth, she still denied it and only admitted it as I was walking out the door for the last time.
Despite EVERYONE telling me to get rid of her I decided to trust her and get back together.Things have been decent since then and I told her that she would need to rebuild the trust between us.
We like to party a lot here in GR and have lots of mutual friends and party a good bit. I have always told her if she ever does coke that I would get rid of her because I have had a coke head GF before and it was pathetic. Never had money, sneaking around doing coke behind my back, hanging out with who-ever could get it for her, etc, etc you all know how it goes.

Well this weekend she decides to give it a try, I noticed her eyes were huge and she was bouncing off of the walls, it took me about 3 seconds to know what was up. I confronted her, she of course denied it. Did some investigating because I knew she was lying to me and found out someone I know sold an 8 ball to a friend of hers and they had been "going out to the car".
She still denied it, I rode home with a friend and slept next to her pissed as hell. She was still denying it all so I went to the store while she was still sleeping and bought a drug test. When i got back I woke her up and I told her she could piss in the cup for me now, or in an hour for her parents because that's where I would be heading next.
So with that she finally admitted to doing a line, but who know how much she really did or for how long she has been because she is a liar.
She works in a strip club and most of her friends are into coke so I figured she would fuck up sooner or later.
I constantly turn down other women whenever I go out and getting another girl would not be an issue, but it seems all of the good ones are gone and I am sick of weeding through all of the shitty women out there.
I told her I would help her move her shit out and that it would be best for her because I could never see myself marrying her because she is a liar. She started crying and begging me not to get rid of her, telling me I could test her whenever etc etc.
I have seen coke ruin the lives of a few of my friends and I have NEVER tried it and never will. Virtually all of her GF are hooked on the shit and she has a very addictive personality so I bet she will do it again and again......

I am in idiot if do not get rid of her right?....
Just looking for some feedback, this is a big decision for me and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.

What would you do?
LL

Get rid of her... She has some issues that she needs to work out.
Most likely she isnt just doing coke with a bunch of her 'girl friends' she is probably doing it with some guy, getting all fuck up and shit. This happened to one of my close guy firends..his girl did the same shit, but he loved her and stayed with her..still to this day she goes behind his back and does that shit.
find someone else who respects you, and herself

 

[hippedy hop]

does she have a couple of hot friends? if so try to have a threesome and then dump the bitch. not for the coke but for cheating on you.

word.

 

[vinylgroover]

I would stop seeing her because she cheated.

Seems to me though your major issue is the coke. Are your friends into coke? If so, it seems hypocritical to have one set of standards for your friends and another set for your gilrfriend.

 

[casavant]

I just read you first post and none of the replies so I'm sure this has already been said-

You have a girlfriend who..

1) Has cheated on you at least once.

2) Did shit behind your back that she know you were vehemently opposed to and lied about it.

and.....(drumroll please)

3) She's a stripper.


You're on the right track. If you can't see a possible future with this chick (and I'm glad you don't) then you're just postponing the inevitable and probably inviting a lot more heartache by staying with her. Go with you gut and split. It sounds like something you won't ever regret in the long run.

 

[Golfer18--old]

LL, your first mistake was dating a girl that young and not expecting some drama. For the most part, girls between 18 and 25 do not have their heads on straight and are still in party mode. Aside from that, you stayed with this girl after she cheated on you and lied about it. You taking her back killed off any respect she had for you in the first place. You are a doormat to her. Case in point your attempt to break up with her yesterday. All she did was turn on the Niagra Falls, and you caved. This girl knows that she has you in the palm of her hand. Not to mention she works in a strip club of all places. Dude!
Last year right about this time I was dating a 22 year old girl that I met in a bar one weekend. I was 26 at the time. She worked out of town in Louisiana, and I would see her if she was coming back in town for the weekend. I was all about her because she was attractive and seemed to have her head on straight maintaining a respectable job and had goals. Well about a month into it, I pretty much figured out that she had a boyfriend in the city that she went to work in every week that she was fucking. She wasn't the best liar in the world, and I started to pick up on things that didn't add up right. Anyways, this other guy was 30 years old, and they had been dating for about 9-10 months. I waited another month or so before I had enough evidence to call her out on it one weekend when she was in town, and she owned up to everything. She didn't tell her boyfriend obviously because he was clueless, until apparently he found an email with directions to my apartment in the glovebox of her jeep. BUSTED. This guy STILL took her back after knowing that she had cheated. All I could think about was, "what a chump." Don't be that guy, LL.
If you want a decent girlfriend, find someone a little bit closer to your age. At your age, you need to be looking at girls under 25 as nothing more than "ass." If you want to upgrade them from "ass" to "girlfriend," you better have gone through a long feeling out process to make sure that it's worth your time.

Leave the Lousiana women alone or get beat down biotch.

 

[MP5]

The real problem here is you. You are codependant. You are mentally abused and you don't even know it. They bitch cheats on you, is doing blow, hanging out with strippers and you just put your nuts in your purse and say "yes dear"! Man the fuck up and go and get some new clean pussy!

One of my ex's starting hanging with the wrong crowd. Started with weed, then X, then LSD, and i heard she was doing coke eventually, but i dumped her already. Relationships are too hard let alone when one of the partners is on drugs. I saw her like two years later and I had gained like 20 pounds from lifting and was beating off new pussy with a stick. She was really sad. Fuck it.

 

[TNH]

strippers suck