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LL,
Do you believe in "Lex Talionis"?
Do you believe in "Lex Talionis"?
My GF did coke this weekend and lied to me about it should I get rid of her?
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LL, your first mistake was dating a girl that young and not expecting some drama. For the most part, girls between 18 and 25 do not have their heads on straight and are still in party mode. Aside from that, you stayed with this girl after she cheated on you and lied about it. You taking her back killed off any respect she had for you in the first place. You are a doormat to her. Case in point your attempt to break up with her yesterday. All she did was turn on the Niagra Falls, and you caved. This girl knows that she has you in the palm of her hand. Not to mention she works in a strip club of all places. Dude!
Last year right about this time I was dating a 22 year old girl that I met in a bar one weekend. I was 26 at the time. She worked out of town in Louisiana, and I would see her if she was coming back in town for the weekend. I was all about her because she was attractive and seemed to have her head on straight maintaining a respectable job and had goals. Well about a month into it, I pretty much figured out that she had a boyfriend in the city that she went to work in every week that she was fucking. She wasn't the best liar in the world, and I started to pick up on things that didn't add up right. Anyways, this other guy was 30 years old, and they had been dating for about 9-10 months. I waited another month or so before I had enough evidence to call her out on it one weekend when she was in town, and she owned up to everything. She didn't tell her boyfriend obviously because he was clueless, until apparently he found an email with directions to my apartment in the glovebox of her jeep. BUSTED. This guy STILL took her back after knowing that she had cheated. All I could think about was, "what a chump." Don't be that guy, LL.
If you want a decent girlfriend, find someone a little bit closer to your age. At your age, you need to be looking at girls under 25 as nothing more than "ass." If you want to upgrade them from "ass" to "girlfriend," you better have gone through a long feeling out process to make sure that it's worth your time.
Last year right about this time I was dating a 22 year old girl that I met in a bar one weekend. I was 26 at the time. She worked out of town in Louisiana, and I would see her if she was coming back in town for the weekend. I was all about her because she was attractive and seemed to have her head on straight maintaining a respectable job and had goals. Well about a month into it, I pretty much figured out that she had a boyfriend in the city that she went to work in every week that she was fucking. She wasn't the best liar in the world, and I started to pick up on things that didn't add up right. Anyways, this other guy was 30 years old, and they had been dating for about 9-10 months. I waited another month or so before I had enough evidence to call her out on it one weekend when she was in town, and she owned up to everything. She didn't tell her boyfriend obviously because he was clueless, until apparently he found an email with directions to my apartment in the glovebox of her jeep. BUSTED. This guy STILL took her back after knowing that she had cheated. All I could think about was, "what a chump." Don't be that guy, LL.
If you want a decent girlfriend, find someone a little bit closer to your age. At your age, you need to be looking at girls under 25 as nothing more than "ass." If you want to upgrade them from "ass" to "girlfriend," you better have gone through a long feeling out process to make sure that it's worth your time.
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big4life said:
the best advice that has been given on this board in about 4 hours
she is 23 years old----your 30
when I was 23, i was just looking for the next party-----
let her go and grow up a bit....She still wants to experience things(things that you have probably already done in your life)...
Just let your go......Trying to change someone or mold them to your liking will almost always back- fire.....
out B
when I was 23, i was just looking for the next party-----
let her go and grow up a bit....She still wants to experience things(things that you have probably already done in your life)...
Just let your go......Trying to change someone or mold them to your liking will almost always back- fire.....
out B
Using Coke is one thing...lying is another...lying about using Coke is yet another. 
If she lied to you so easily about something so serious... then you need to think about your relationship. If she considers your relationship together to be "worth" a few simple lies...then she doesn't value YOU or the relationship.
She would rather use coke and/or lie to you than be honest with you and keep the relationship together.
Think about it...and how she REALLY values you!!!
B True
If she lied to you so easily about something so serious... then you need to think about your relationship. If she considers your relationship together to be "worth" a few simple lies...then she doesn't value YOU or the relationship.
She would rather use coke and/or lie to you than be honest with you and keep the relationship together.
Think about it...and how she REALLY values you!!!
B True
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Actually, I still love to party and she is the one who has trouble keeping up with me.
She has never done coke before as far as I know, but I am worried now that she has tried it that she will not be able to control it. She is already bitching about how it "hurts" and she feels like she wants more. She has done other drugs with me before X, G, whippets and weed but I have to draw the line at coke because I have seen it ruin people.
As far as the cheating thing, it has been almost 2 years since then and I am virtually 100% sure she has been faithful.
I am mostly worried she will become the classic stripper type hooked on coke and that is what bothers me. I know if I am going to stay with her she has to leave the club but it will be hard, most of our friends are male/female strippers and we like that scene, they are some damn fun people to hang with, just not the coke.
Also going to be hard finding a job where she can make 300$ for 5 hrs of work.
She is staying with her parents for a bit, I told her I need some time to think it out.
As far as her being younger, I look very young for my age and I like younger women because girls my age want to settle down and make babies while the younger ones still want to live.
She has never done coke before as far as I know, but I am worried now that she has tried it that she will not be able to control it. She is already bitching about how it "hurts" and she feels like she wants more. She has done other drugs with me before X, G, whippets and weed but I have to draw the line at coke because I have seen it ruin people.
As far as the cheating thing, it has been almost 2 years since then and I am virtually 100% sure she has been faithful.
I am mostly worried she will become the classic stripper type hooked on coke and that is what bothers me. I know if I am going to stay with her she has to leave the club but it will be hard, most of our friends are male/female strippers and we like that scene, they are some damn fun people to hang with, just not the coke.
Also going to be hard finding a job where she can make 300$ for 5 hrs of work.
She is staying with her parents for a bit, I told her I need some time to think it out.
As far as her being younger, I look very young for my age and I like younger women because girls my age want to settle down and make babies while the younger ones still want to live.
wait a minute. Let me get this straight. She's a stripper. She cheated on you, and she did coke and lied to you about it correct?
nothing here suprises me except that you are still with her. Come on dude have some self respect. Thats what the stripping lifestyle is all about. Drugs and sex(maybe even sex for money) I have dated strippers, cokeheads and strippers that are cokeheads and I can honestly say most of them are worthless liars.
I also agree that giving in the first time, and especially now will give her a free pass to do as she pleases, in her mind. Like someone on this thread already stated- Kick her to the curb and then kick her some more.
nothing here suprises me except that you are still with her. Come on dude have some self respect. Thats what the stripping lifestyle is all about. Drugs and sex(maybe even sex for money) I have dated strippers, cokeheads and strippers that are cokeheads and I can honestly say most of them are worthless liars.
I also agree that giving in the first time, and especially now will give her a free pass to do as she pleases, in her mind. Like someone on this thread already stated- Kick her to the curb and then kick her some more.
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