Bro,
I am scared to death as a father. Especially since I was a teenage boy once, I am pectrafied(sp).
I have already had some trouble with her when she was 14 so I took her out of the public system and put her in a fundlementalist baptist private school. She since has changed and gotten so much nicer, modest and more respectful. Public school suck now dude. They(commy bastards like the ACLU) have taken God out of the schools and it shows. I mean she had friends that were doing shrooms and coke in the 6th grade. Man, I never saw a joint until I was in the eight grade. She had four friends that were pregnant in the seventh.
The best advice I can give you is put your kids in private or home school. Don't let the govt educate them. The govt is TERRIBLE at it. Spend the money it is worth every cent.
One day I hope we get vouchers so we can send our kids and our money to where we(as parents) see fit.