Might get a new job

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This thread is getting its second wind with the lols

 

[the.gladiator1987]

my threads deliver longer than 20 pregnant housewives combined brah

 

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my threads deliver longer than 20 pregnant housewives combined brah

lololol

Big like Tom Hanks

 

[SPEKTOR-AAA]

And what not having a kid at your age has given me
Is the opportunity to experience a wide variety of things in life, which I've learned and grown from.
I was able to take chances, and even when I failed, I was able to recover and transition quickly while learning from my mistakes. It's called personal growth, and that concept changes drastically when you have a child. Your margin for error is almost non existent.

You gave absolutely no examples. Just curious what exactly you think you have achieved by not having a kid? Specifics, thx

I am under the impression you believe having a kid changes everything around you, that theory is flawed my friend. If in fact you do feel this way please DONT have kids, I would actually pity them.

 

[calveless wonder]

But for you to say I wont get personal growth is stupid. I will get plenty of that just from having this baby. What have you gained that I wont because of the baby?

You'll obviously grow from having a kid this young in some ways, but its like holding a gun to the maturation process.

Not having a kid allowed me to do things like travel, be able to change careers or go back to school without consequence, go out and meet interesting people as well as network. Date a wide variety of girls to the point where I know what type of woman I want; without having a kid to detract from that.
Dating is a billion times different when you have a kid and the other person doesn't, if you even have time to meet them. Thats not me saying that, that's people in that situation saying that.

I've personally had a ton of fun, and life changing experiences and adventures I would have never been able to do while taking care of a baby. Things that have expanded my horizons and made me a better person. Theres still a lot more I want to do and see before I have a family, but I'm not one of those people who wished he "could have" because I've done it all almost.

I was able to take risks in business that taught me a tremendous amount and that will carry over to my next venture. You can't change gears or direction at the drop of a dime when you have another mouth to feed. Stability over opportunity.

I'm not saying you can't make it,you certainly can. you just made it more difficult and robbed yourself of time to really learn about yourself. You're still a kid, raising a kid.

You sound like you'll be a good father as far as actually caring about your kid, but lets be real and realize that you may not have the same opportunities than if you had waited.

 

[lartinos]

lol @ the people on this forum not partying.

Ya, I never party. This new video that is being made is of someone that looks like me at a club

 

[lartinos]

CW was the voice of reason in this thread. I didn't really feel the need to add anything to what he said. Life is a marathon and not a sprint, hard times resulting from this are inevitable. How you handle these issues will be important.

 

[SPEKTOR-AAA]

CW was the voice of reason in this thread. I didn't really feel the need to add anything to what he said. Life is a marathon and not a sprint, hard times resulting from this are inevitable. How you handle these issues will be important.

B/S hard times in relation to what. What do you consider hard time Lartinos? Some of my friends consider a hard time not having their landscaper there on Tuesday morning to mow their guddamn lawn. Another buddy considers hard times not being able to break a heroin addiction that will inevitably kill them.

Whats funny is how voice of reasons come from someone who didnt have a kid yet. But I will say CW definately is a well rounded smart motha fuka. You have to admit there are just as many people who can argue the opposite with just as much poise and intellect.

Live isnt written in a book.

 

[stevesmi]

hard times for me would be only being able to do 10 reps on the bench at 225 pounds instead of 12. jk jk.

as long as i can live comfortably i have nothing to complain about. that means being able to pay my mortgage, and other bills and still have disposable income to spend on shit like sporting events, travelling etc. and still have enough leftover to stash away.

I will tell you young guys something.. no matter how much money you make, don't live outside your means. there is no need for a flashy car and a gigantic house. just live a modest life cause you might have a crummy year and quickly deplete your savings. who cares if your friend who makes half your salary has a BMW and you have a toyota... or your other friend has a 6 bedroom house and you rent

 

[calveless wonder]

B/S hard times in relation to what. What do you consider hard time Lartinos? Some of my friends consider a hard time not having their landscaper there on Tuesday morning to mow their guddamn lawn. Another buddy considers hard times not being able to break a heroin addiction that will inevitably kill them.

Whats funny is how voice of reasons come from someone who didnt have a kid yet. But I will say CW definately is a well rounded smart motha fuka. You have to admit there are just as many people who can argue the opposite with just as much poise and intellect.

Live isnt written in a book.

Argue what? That having a child at 21 with a woman that is a whore was a good idea? All while not having a career, finishing his education and still living at home?

Anyone who can argue that effectively could have gotten Bernie Madoff off the hook.

(sorry glad, thats not to tear you down)

Do you have a kid Spector?