meeting people from online...

[Dial_tone]

Dial Tone is telling the truth.
Meeting someone online is kind of weird.
You get to know everything about them mentally first.
So when you show up and you are good looking its a done deal!
The internet kicks ass!!!

100%. I talked to them all for months so by that time you had fucked each other mentally many times over. In each case it was pretty much an assumption that fucking was first on the to do list as long as you both meet the description you presented. If I didn't think I could score the first day I wouldn't be meeting them in the first place. Real world relationships are totally different. I usually don't even try to hit it for at least a month.

The only one I didn't screw wasn't intended to be a hookup anyway. She's just a friend...saw her again Saturday actually.

 

[jackangel]

friend = she had herpes

 

[Dial_tone]

I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.

It depends on the distance between them. If I flew or drove overnight to see somebody and didn't score ASAP I likely wouldn't see her again. Are they within day driving distance of each other? If so she should definitely not drop the panties on the first date, unless a hookup is all she wants to be. Any local hookups should definitely follow my 'nookie by numbers' post on here.

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/c...mbers-guide-female-dating-success-474667.html

 

[covergrl80]

I am not at all good with these things. I have had to ask myself this same exact question in the past .

I tend to go off the vibe I am getting from the other person. Every situation is different. I am not the girl that sleeps with someone on the first date, I am always afraid that he will think I am like this with every other guys I have went on a date with. This is a touchy subject.

 

[hatfreak32]

just be careful, there are some dangerous people out there. I've heard of success stories and horror stories, and it's hard to know what you're in for. Just remember that the internet comes with great annonymity and some people abuse it.

 

[DannoMight]

I speak on behalf of most men when I post "show us pics of said hottie"















please

 

[avidinternet]

No way should she sleep with a guy on the first date,

or the 2nd or the 3rd.

 

[redguru]

No way should she sleep with a guy on the first date,

or the 2nd or the 3rd.

Only if they are both married.

 

[avidinternet]

Only if they are both married.

To each other...

 

[Smurfy]

I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.

def nail it on the first date. that's what i always do.