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I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.
 
Are you this "friend" Heather? I knew you were cheating on me. What's his screen name? I'll fucking kill the bastard.
 
jack_schitt said:
Are you this "friend" Heather? I knew you were cheating on me. What's his screen name? I'll fucking kill the bastard.
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LOL...you know better.


I swear on a stack of bibles that it really is a friend.
 
Jack is now working on tapping HR's friends via the intraweb.

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heatherrae said:
I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.
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A girl I fuck on the first date becomes "that girl I've been fucking" instead of "that girl I've been dating."
 
heatherrae said:
LOL...you know better.


I swear on a stack of bibles that it really is a friend.
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LOL @ a lawyer swearing on a stack of bibles being a test of honesty...lol..a lawyer..lolllollol.... :evil:
 
patsfan1379 said:
A girl I fuck on the first date becomes "that girl I've been fucking" instead of "that girl I've been dating."
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Yeah, I hear ya. I think that she should just request that when they meet that they do lots of stuff in public and that she not spend to much time alone with him that could lead to hanky panky.
 
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heatherrae said:
I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.
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u and jack didnt work out?

for real, online interactions and relationships have nothing to do with IRL ones (unless u meet them IRL first).

sex on the first time seeing them in real life is basically the same as fucking someone the day you meet them. depends on what kinda person you are. neither is terrible, but thats how it is.

if she wants to hold out etc, give it a chance like a week or two before banging him
 
1st off..

it's not like just meeting someone at a house party and banging them in the car or the bathroom..

they have known each other for some time and have even talked a bit on the phone..

what she is really afraid of is when they meet, if it doesn't work out, she will lose a "friend" that she has been using as an emotional crutch..

you people need to relax about sex.. sometimes.. it's just sex..
 
I have met 6 women from online and I fucked all but one within 6 hours of meeting for the first time.
 
Dial_tone said:
I have met 6 women from online and I fucked all but one within 6 hours of meeting for the first time.
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Are you serious? Wow.
 
heatherrae said:
No, she is a little hottie.
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most ARE hotties or you wouldn't be interested in them, then you fuck'em and they're just good looking bitches you fucked after that.....next.
 
Dial Tone is telling the truth.
Meeting someone online is kind of weird.
You get to know everything about them mentally first.
So when you show up and you are good looking its a done deal!
The internet kicks ass!!!
 
heatherrae said:
not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.
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this sounds pretty ridiculous to me. she's basically wondering if she should be easy, or not. how is that a difficult question to answer? if this were just for hooking up, i suppose the answer is that she might as well sleep with him...since that's the point. but if she might actually like him (and this seems like the case, since she's put some time into getting to know him) and might want to date him...there shouldn't be any issue in waiting. if he pressures her or loses interest in her, fuck 'im, he's worthless anyway. if the only other issue is that she might get caught up in the moment and want it badly...uh, well...
 
jack_schitt said:
I wanna hang out with Dial Tone someday.
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I was going to say the same thing, then I though a little more about it and thought to self "HELL NO" that dude could talk a tiger into give up it's strips lol
 
covergrl80 said:
I was going to say the same thing, then I though a little more about it and thought to self "HELL NO" that dude could talk a tiger into give up it's strips lol
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Thats why I want photocopies of his play book.
 
I don't know, I guess each situation would be different...for me, no sex on first date but I can be a prude at times apparently. :whatever:
 
slat1 said:
Dial Tone is telling the truth.
Meeting someone online is kind of weird.
You get to know everything about them mentally first.
So when you show up and you are good looking its a done deal!
The internet kicks ass!!!
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100%. I talked to them all for months so by that time you had fucked each other mentally many times over. In each case it was pretty much an assumption that fucking was first on the to do list as long as you both meet the description you presented. If I didn't think I could score the first day I wouldn't be meeting them in the first place. Real world relationships are totally different. I usually don't even try to hit it for at least a month.

The only one I didn't screw wasn't intended to be a hookup anyway. She's just a friend...saw her again Saturday actually.
 
heatherrae said:
I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.
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It depends on the distance between them. If I flew or drove overnight to see somebody and didn't score ASAP I likely wouldn't see her again. Are they within day driving distance of each other? If so she should definitely not drop the panties on the first date, unless a hookup is all she wants to be. Any local hookups should definitely follow my 'nookie by numbers' post on here.

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/c...mbers-guide-female-dating-success-474667.html
 
I am not at all good with these things. I have had to ask myself this same exact question in the past :worried: .

I tend to go off the vibe I am getting from the other person. Every situation is different. I am not the girl that sleeps with someone on the first date, I am always afraid that he will think I am like this with every other guys I have went on a date with. This is a touchy subject.
 
just be careful, there are some dangerous people out there. I've heard of success stories and horror stories, and it's hard to know what you're in for. Just remember that the internet comes with great annonymity and some people abuse it.
 
heatherrae said:
I have a friend who is going to meet this guy for the first time in a few months. She has had many conversation with with him over the years on the internet, and they have been speaking on the phone for a few months now.

She is a little nervous about meeting him and not sure it is a great idea to sleep with him when they meet face to face for the first time.

I don't know what to tell her. I have met people from online before but I'm not so sure if I think it is a good idea, anymore.

I would advise against sleeping together on the first date, as a rule, but I was wondering what you guys think about it, or if you think he will think totally different about her if she did end up sleeping with him.
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def nail it on the first date. that's what i always do.
 
The only women you meet online who don't give it up on a first date are not worth a 2nd. God bless the internet

If he's buying a plane ticket she best seal the deal if she expects a followup... unless he's a comb-over betamale type who'll bring her flowers and listen to her whine about her exes and how hard it is to find a good man :)
 
SpyWizard said:
1st off..

it's not like just meeting someone at a house party and banging them in the car or the bathroom..

they have known each other for some time and have even talked a bit on the phone..

what she is really afraid of is when they meet, if it doesn't work out, she will lose a "friend" that she has been using as an emotional crutch..

you people need to relax about sex.. sometimes.. it's just sex..
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Agreed with this entire post...and especially the bolded part.

If they've known each other for years it's nothing like fucking someone the day you meet them. Things could obviously go either way depending on how HE sees it, my opinion means absolutely squat here.
 
Dial_tone said:
. If I didn't think I could score the first day I wouldn't be meeting them in the first place. .
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Hey Dialtone, I just remembered my Great Grandmother-in-law is coming over the weekend we're supposed to hang out. I'm so sorry I can't make it. I'll have to cancel and make it another time.

Thanks.

<<runs and changes all names and passwords>>
 
Tweakle said:
The only women you meet online who don't give it up on a first date are not worth a 2nd. God bless the internet

If he's buying a plane ticket she best seal the deal if she expects a followup... unless he's a comb-over betamale type who'll bring her flowers and listen to her whine about her exes and how hard it is to find a good man :)
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cha to-the-mutha-fucking ching!
 
I agree with the internet being the best place to pick up quick sex. I'm actually avoiding it because I don't have time to deal with trying to juggle several women but whenever I have it's been ridiculous. I think 80% of the time it led to first or at the very outside second date sex.

If you have a half decent personality and talk to the person enough before the first date then like others have said, if you are physically attracted then it's done like dinner. Plus, once you get good at it you can spot profiles that say "I'm desperate for sex right now and will give it up to the first good looking guy who pays attention to me" just like at any bar.
 
I met some guy on line and chatted and talked with him for 3 yrs. We were both "taken" at the time. When we both became single, He asked to meet me. I was not attracted to him but thought it would be cool to meet up with him to hang out for drinks. We went out as a gang.
After talking with him for a bit, I started to become very attracted to him. I never thought I would, but he was so nice. As nice as he was on chat for 3 yrs................UNTILLLLLLLLLLLLLL I slept with him. Then he became a total asswipe. Cold, mean and just an asshole.
So talking to someone for that long doesn't mean much. I was so naive!
I met my current boyfriend on line also. We emailed and talked on the tel for a long time, then when we met, it took us months to even kiss.
Tell your friend to go slowwwwwwwwwwww
 
javaguru said:
AvidPrude, even if you have known each other for years?
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If I have known someone for years and never seen or dated them...hell no.

I'm not a prude I am realistic. I'm also married so I don't have to deal with stupid shit like that.
 
redguru said:
And what is wrong with sex for the sake of sex alone? I got mine, you get yours, everyone is happy, no strings attached.
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Nothing wrong with it...if you can find someone who wants that and will go along with it then have fun.
 
Been a long time since im married now, but in the past nearly all online encounters resulted in almost immediate sex. Of course that's what my goal was.
 
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