lesson in life: love yourself, learn to love yourself...if you can.

[sk*]

You've just admitted that you've been a fake shell for quite some time. You should not be surprised if you lack self-respect or "love for thy self" how could you love something that doesn't even exist. You've been lying to yourself and therefore lying to othersi.

Think about all the people you pushed away from the fabricated you trying to be a macho tough guy, always up, always perfect. Then also consider those that will never trust you because how will they know if it is really you or just another fake?

Maybe when you can accept who you think you really are you will know just how many people deal with the very same challenges in life.

Hmm, interesting, and somewhat funny, coming from you.

-sk

 

[velvett]

Velvett.......your are delving into deep, dark and murky waters.

Belittling someone as you're doing now, can only come from a deep dislike of that person.

You don't hide it very well...or do you even care?

Just curious here.......never seen you go psychologist on us.

Oh......and its just the internet.....simmer....lol

Fonz

How can I dislike a persona that is admittedly not real? How can one insult someone that does not exist?

Apparently, I have no idea who the real HighIntensity is - if indeed there really is one. I dislike a fake people who fall back on the you don't really know me when they say something unacceptable. And then when they need some comfort they get all ou feel sorry for me I'm going through a bad time in my life.

I may have said many unacceptable things on this thread to the standards of some. But I would never dare to lie and blame my comments on a fake personna that I created for myself.

At least you know exactly where you stand with me as I will never lie to you - even if it hurts and I expect the same for me.

I can be as kind and as compassionate as I can be cold and throat cutting. But here it is on the table with no disclaimer stating: "

presenting fictitious opinions ...for entertainment purposes only"



No need to pass judgement on me Fonz - as this is the internet and it is merely fiction, right?

 

[Citruscide]

I don't think there was ever a real admittance of a "fake persona" and if there was... then I think it was incorrectly stated as such by HI.

Much like my "change" -- it wasn't' really a change as such... the person who was making the nasty comments WAS me... I really don't deny that... but it was ME who was very hurt and angered ... bitter at just about everyone in the world... especially women. I don't think it was a "Citruscide Persona" that wasn't "really me" -- it WAS me for that duration of time, until I got past what put me in that state... so I could go back to the person I was... without all the hate and anger.

Such is the situation with HI ... I think he has come to grips with this issue in his life and is making a positive self-realization toward a better lot in life.

I could be wrong... I didn't go to school for this type of mental mumbo-jumbo... but I have talked to HI offline alot and can see a difference in how he looks at things... and I could also see how he looked at things before, and how he really didn't want to look at them like that...

C-ditty

 

[Mandinka2]

At least you know exactly where you stand with me as I will never lie to you - even if it hurts and I expect the same for me.

We need more women like you , and not the ones who just say this about themselves and are hypocrites.

 

[velvett]

I don't think there was ever a real admittance of a "fake persona" and if there was... then I think it was incorrectly stated as such by HI.

I admire your sticking up for a friend as I would do the same.


What everyone seems to miss in my comments is that HighIntensity should just be himself and the compassion put forth towards him will blossom.

People are loved for their imperfection not their perfections.




And since you asked:

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=252731

 

[casavant]

People are loved for their imperfection not their perfections.

In that case, I'm one loveable motherfucker.

 

[Citruscide]

I consider HI a friend. But I wouldn't stick up for him if I didn't think he deserved it.

on another note, do you think that prodding him is the best alternative?

I understand that it is not necessary to come out and say what is going on... that any "change" so to say, will just come about naturally...

The thing is... when this "change" -- I keep using quotes, because I think a better word for this would be a cleansing, or a self-realization -- occurs, you have a need to share it with the rest of the world... EF being a fairly large community and somewhat of a family... is a great place to express this.

I'm just asking that you not condemn him or prod him because of his need to tell people how he feels. Sure, just letting it blossom out is one way it could go... but HI felt a need to do it this way... I mean, you don't have to support him... but why not?

C-ditty

 

[velvett]

Citrus - you can't judge my words - you ran many women off this very board with your words and "call outs".

You may very well have changed and that's great but don't forget where you came from and then make me out to be the only bad guy.

 

[Fonz]

We need more women like you , and not the ones who just say this about themselves and are hypocrites.

Problem here(unfortunately), is that this only happens on the internet.

Not saying its Velvett , but women and men in general tend to back down from saying what they mean when face to face.

I see it happen every day...its quite comical sometimes, but unfortunately its also very hurtful sometimes.

How would you feel if one of your so-called friends called you an idiot behind your back, yet was all smiles in front of you?

Thats then type of people I tried to avoid like the plague.

Fonz

 

[Fonz]

ANd Velvett has taken out the Cyber Machete today I swear....lol

FOnz