Last night at the bar... my first kiss

[Nobledude]

people take risks by not paying enough attention to a girl too though, right?
uggghhhh. you're right she could flake out, and im not sure if i sense a whole lot of devotion from her, or if she'd make out with a dude at a bar or not, haha.

did you get aroused during the make out session? did you feel her out, i.e., touching her boobs/ass....?

 

[-SD-]

people take risks by not paying enough attention to a girl too though, right?
uggghhhh. you're right she could flake out, and im not sure if i sense a whole lot of devotion from her, or if she'd make out with a dude at a bar or not, haha.

Your risk of getting burned is greater than your risk of missing out on a good relationship because you are a novice and havent yet built up your thick skin for dealing with women and getting ignored or burned. If you miss out on a good relationship you would never know it...out of sight out of mind so who cares. But if you get burned you definetely know it.....because it just happened to you. You also dont yet have the insight to determine who is relationship worthy, so best to adopt an attitude that protects you first while allowing you to gain experience.
Your attitude now should be "care the least about the relationship between the two of you". Now this takes practice and is best effective if somewhat subtle. Things like waiting an extra day to call her when she told you to, or showing up 10 minutes late to a date, or not answering her every call. Little things like that show you dont always have her on your mind and that will make her willing to invest more time and energy into the relationship in order to get more attention from you, even though she is already getting attention from you, its just not quite what she is used to (if she is hot then she is used to schmucks falling over themselves to get with her, do what I said above)

 

[Sub-Zero]

youv had your first kiss like 5 times already wtf

 

[GoldenDelicious]

So when are you going to glam me up and take me out?

as soon as you take a number, and wait

 

[Stefka]

as soon as you take a number, and wait

I'm currently accepting applications for my next e-crush. You should sign up.

 

[healother]

hey heal other im from mpls down by the U, if u come down to the campus bars youd have much better luck with the college gals if u wanna get some poosy

hey jigga, thanks for the tip! so why is that? are college girls just more horny? or is it cuz more girls are at those bars?
ps: We should have an EF meetup, SpyWizard is also from your area, we could go out and be wingmen for each other or something, lol

did you get aroused during the make out session? did you feel her out, i.e., touching her boobs/ass....?

hell yeah i did, i touched her ass a bit after she touched mine, i wanted to touch her boobs and did a bit when she put my arm there, haha. i would have done more but ppl in the bar were hollering at us 2 to get a room, lol.
I was grinding myself into her once while we were making out too. i was hard

Your risk of getting burned is greater than your risk of missing out on a good relationship because you are a novice and havent yet built up your thick skin for dealing with women and getting ignored or burned. If you miss out on a good relationship you would never know it...out of sight out of mind so who cares. But if you get burned you definetely know it.....because it just happened to you. You also dont yet have the insight to determine who is relationship worthy, so best to adopt an attitude that protects you first while allowing you to gain experience.
Your attitude now should be "care the least about the relationship between the two of you". Now this takes practice and is best effective if somewhat subtle. Things like waiting an extra day to call her when she told you to, or showing up 10 minutes late to a date, or not answering her every call. Little things like that show you dont always have her on your mind and that will make her willing to invest more time and energy into the relationship in order to get more attention from you, even though she is already getting attention from you, its just not quite what she is used to (if she is hot then she is used to schmucks falling over themselves to get with her, do what I said above)

what does it mean to get burned? how is that any different than if you dont talk to her and she doesnt call you? lol. so is burned like if you are interested but she isnt? or is it if she doesnt something to you?

In any case, I think you raise a good point how being detached could wind up meaning a better turnout. I think the general concept you have is smart, but making rules about it is where i get a sick feeling. I'm willing to follow principles, honest principles. And not being too needy to a girl is plenty honest, and it shows a sign of respect if you can be ok without her, because then you arent using her or pestering her too much.

 

[jiggagold]

most college girls at the bars tend to go out looking for guys and are out for a good time, and yes there tends to be a lot more girls out drinking on campus just because it is the college standard

 

[heavy_duty]

Girls are not horny every day like guys.
Everything is based on their 28 day cycle.
So once again you fucked up, next time you see her she will not be horny.
You're an idiot.
Count 28 days from that first makeout session and call her then!

hell yeah i did, i touched her ass a bit after she touched mine, i wanted to touch her boobs and did a bit when she put my arm there, haha. i would have done more but ppl in the bar were hollering at us 2 to get a room, lol.
I was grinding myself into her once while we were making out too. i was hard

 

[SpyWizard]

most college girls at the bars tend to go out looking for guys and are out for a good time, and yes there tends to be a lot more girls out drinking on campus just because it is the college standard

Minneapolis..
uptown... williams bar... 3:1 ratio of women.. 26-32 a good mix professional, and just a smattering of goth/punk..

good times..

 

[seaking420]

Congrats.......I guess