Last night at the bar... my first kiss

[H_T_]

wtf. she's grooming you to be her bitchboy. you'll give her backrubs & braid her hair, but you'll never get a whiff of that pussy. you had your chance to squash that shit when that dude called. you coulda played that so many ways and come out on top, but you were passive again. you coulda called him out on his weak ass threat on driving drunk & making it her responsibility to take care of him, etc....on & on....i swear, you're gonna be sweater shopping for that drunk dude with her, if you let this keep up...

 

[-SD-]

wtf. she's grooming you to be her bitchboy. you'll give her backrubs & braid her hair, but you'll never get a whiff of that pussy. you had your chance to squash that shit when that dude called. you coulda played that so many ways and come out on top, but you were passive again. you coulda called him out on his weak ass threat on driving drunk & making it her responsibility to take care of him, etc....on & on....i swear, you're gonna be sweater shopping for that drunk dude with her, if you let this keep up...

This is pretty much the only other alternative to dropping her, as I said to do.

 

[healother]

UPDATE:

Confirmed, this girl is a skank. i talked to her this morning online and then on the phone. apparently last night she was absolutely trashed at a party with lots of single guys, who were all macking on her. she made out with a few dudes, and one guy she let him fuck her, without a condum. she said he was a virgin. she said she barely remembers any of it though.

she doesnt even remember calling me last night and telling me not to come.

granted i let a girl put her hand in my pants at the club, but at least i didnt have unprotected sex with a stranger.

wow this is just fucked up.

Drop her, now. Dont even call her, just move on. See how easy this can be?

how easy? are you being sarcastic or serious?

anyways though, after hearing about her slut fest last night, it seems pretty easy to drop her.

wtf. she's grooming you to be her bitchboy. you'll give her backrubs & braid her hair, but you'll never get a whiff of that pussy. you had your chance to squash that shit when that dude called. you coulda played that so many ways and come out on top, but you were passive again. you coulda called him out on his weak ass threat on driving drunk & making it her responsibility to take care of him, etc....on & on....i swear, you're gonna be sweater shopping for that drunk dude with her, if you let this keep up...

yeah, i would have said "dont pick him up" but i didnt want to sound like a control freak.

 

[-SD-]

UPDATE:

Confirmed, this girl is a skank. i talked to her this morning online and then on the phone. apparently last night she was absolutely trashed at a party with lots of single guys, who were all macking on her. she made out with a few dudes, and one guy she let him fuck her, without a condum. she said he was a virgin. she said she barely remembers any of it though.

she doesnt even remember calling me last night and telling me not to come.

granted i let a girl put her hand in my pants at the club, but at least i didnt have unprotected sex with a stranger.

wow this is just fucked up.
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After this post do you really think I am being sarcastic? Come on dude, I wouldnt steer you wrong.

 

[healother]

After this post do you really think I am being sarcastic? Come on dude, I wouldnt steer you wrong.

it sucks having to move on. i just want to find a girl to do stuff with, but something definately tells me this girl is the wrong one.

so are there women that will be kind, and stop making out and having sex with random dudes after she meets a guy she is interested in and gives him her number?

I dont want to go on a date with a woman knowing that later she is going to go to a party and get fucked, when all she gave me was a goodnight kiss on the doorstep

thats cheating as far as im concerned. and if u dont want to call it that, its still disrespectful.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Do you own that place? I've been there with friends in the past.

THIS IS GOM CAUSE BM IS SIGNED ON TO HER LAPTOP

As much as I have spent there I should. I actually tried to buy the Men's Club Group a couple years ago. They declined Dallas has Laura Miller so no more titty bars opened or transfered.

My wife and I visit once in a blue moon to see some of my old girlies there. They love her but aren't too happy about no more rent, car payments, call phone bills etc etc.. BM couldn't care less she gets all my lunch money

 

[H_T_]

UPDATE:

Confirmed, this girl is a skank. i talked to her this morning online and then on the phone. apparently last night she was absolutely trashed at a party with lots of single guys, who were all macking on her. she made out with a few dudes, and one guy she let him fuck her, without a condum. she said he was a virgin. she said she barely remembers any of it though.

she doesnt even remember calling me last night and telling me not to come.

granted i let a girl put her hand in my pants at the club, but at least i didnt have unprotected sex with a stranger.

wow this is just fucked up.



how easy? are you being sarcastic or serious?

anyways though, after hearing about her slut fest last night, it seems pretty easy to drop her.



yeah, i would have said "dont pick him up" but i didnt want to sound like a control freak.

dude. control freak? there is nothing wrong with taking control. you shoulda sank his battleship with a cockblock.

 

[healother]

dude. control freak? there is nothing wrong with taking control. you shoulda sank his battleship with a cockblock.

this dude had a boyfriend. but his friend who fucked her was single

anyways, she was going to go to that party regardless. uggh.

 

[ponyfitness]

Brother that girl is obviously just a dumb slut. Move on. Plus you won't have the added obvious immense risk of a nasty disease from a girl who just had unprotected sex with a total stranger and has probably done it many times in the past. It's not like girls just do that out of the blue. Although I'm willing to bet if you called her a dumb slut and challenged her she would bang you. Sounds like the type of girl to sleep with any dominant male with some game.

Now that your confidence is going up you have to develop confidence enough to know without a shadow of a doubt that next time you go out, another girl will be interested. And another, and so on. And make sure you have enough confidence to know what you will accept as behaviour and what you won't without sacrificing your own feelings. Remember you're doing this journey for yourself and nobody else.

 

[Tweakle]

all this hard work Stevie and you're still the biggest social retard I've ever heard of.. and I've been working with IT dorks for the last 8 years so that's quite an achievement.

so are there women that will be kind, and stop making out and having sex with random dudes after she meets a guy she is interested in and gives him her number?

a club skank gave you a sniff of it and you think you can turn her into mother theresa? on the surface it sounds like you're pathetically trying to wring something out of nothing but I suspect underneath it you're developing a savior complex, thinking you can fix these fallen women and turn them into good little wifey material. Next thing you'll be going to strip clubs to try to find 'the one'. Fucks sake, grow a pair.

here's what you need to do. Stop trying to be someone you're clearly not cut out to be. Stop going to clubs. stop doing this stuff you know deep down is wrong, because you're not going to find the kind of person you want there. What nice christian girl would want a guy who goes out, gets drunk and grinds on random women on the dancefloor, and you're only a couple of bad decisions away from doing lines and X.

join a e-dating site for christians and find yourself another virgin to grow old with.