Last night at the bar... my first kiss

[healother]

Minneapolis..
uptown... williams bar... 3:1 ratio of women.. 26-32 a good mix professional, and just a smattering of goth/punk..

good times..

we should meetup down there sometime and be wingmen for each other.

The risk you take from not paying enough attention from a girl is that she wont pay enough attention to you to keep you interested. And if she doesnt than so what, move on. But if you give a girl too much attention then she burns you then you will feel like a fool for giving her the time of day. Thats the difference. So in order to facilitate your learning experience without causing you too much heartache you should ALWAYS be the one who cares just a little less about the relationship between you and her.

whatever happened to taking risks and learning to deal with rejection? people are always telling me i need to make moves and stop being a pussy.

good job bro. don't get too wrapped up in this one encounter, use it to build upon

we might be hanging out more. we hungout tonight and watched a movie.
but your right, i need to have a backup plan, incase she fails me.

 

[-SD-]

whatever happened to taking risks and learning to deal with rejection? people are always telling me i need to make moves and stop being a pussy.
we might be hanging out more. we hungout tonight and watched a movie.
but your right, i need to have a backup plan, incase she fails me.

Youre already practicing risk management. Of course you should make some moves and initiate certain things but never invest more than youre willing to lose with a woman you dont know well. Its give and take so make sure you arent the one doing all the giving.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

we should meetup down there sometime and be wingmen for each other.




whatever happened to taking risks and learning to deal with rejection? people are always telling me i need to make moves and stop being a pussy.



we might be hanging out more. we hungout tonight and watched a movie.
but your right, i need to have a backup plan, incase she fails me.

DUDE!!!

Call me, I'll send you a ticket to come here I will introduce you to all the girls at the Mens Club! You will not only get kissed but you will actually get LAID!

Then I won't have to hear all this pussy shit from a male! A movie? Three women and a porno is a date at the movies.

 

[H_T_]

Steve. chop your dick off. feed it to a starving dog. now you've accomplised 2 things:
1- nourished, briefly, a poor animal.
2- ridded yourself of that bothersome penis. i bet you get laid more w/o it. now you can play Starcraft all night and shit....

 

[Phaded]

congrats on the first kiss.. i remember my first makeout session i had a raging boner..

 

[JarheadChiro]

Marine, with a capital M.

 

[healother]

UPDATE:

so tonight I went and watched half a movie with her, but then she got a call from a drunk guy friend who needed a ride home from work cuz he got trashed while he was at work. He said he would drive home drunk if she didnt come out and drive him. So she stopped the movie partway to go out there.

She knew i was going clubbing tonight, so she said that I should come over to this party they were having when i got done clubbing. so i called at 2am and asked where the place was and she says "oh im too drunk, you shouldnt come over." i asked why, and she said "because there are too many guys here, and I dont want you to get mad if you see them hitting on me. I dont want any drama." I said "no dont worry, drunk guys hit on women, there wont be any drama" She said "well i dont want you to get the wrong idea thinking im trying to work you over or anything, so lets hangout tomorrow. Id like to hangout with you one on one more, I liked hanging out with you today, I'll give you a call after i wake up, how does that sound?" I said "ok" and then that was that.

Something tells me what she doesnt want me to see is her making out and possibly getting banged by a bunch of drunk dudes. Oh well. I dunno if I should care or not. I mean we're not dating. but we probably wont be, if either of us keeps this promiscuous behavior up, lol. (yes ive been acting promiscous lately, read my clubbing thread posted on 4/21)

Youre already practicing risk management. Of course you should make some moves and initiate certain things but never invest more than youre willing to lose with a woman you dont know well. Its give and take so make sure you arent the one doing all the giving.

alright, that makes more sense i think.

DUDE!!!

Call me, I'll send you a ticket to come here I will introduce you to all the girls at the Mens Club! You will not only get kissed but you will actually get LAID!

Then I won't have to hear all this pussy shit from a male! A movie? Three women and a porno is a date at the movies.

you're very nice GOM I'd love to come down to Texas sometime. I'm not sure if I'm looking to come back with 3 STDs, but partying it up with you and your women in texas would be a blast! lol.

congrats on the first kiss.. i remember my first makeout session i had a raging boner..

yeah, i had a boner, not raging, but it was there. she probably felt it when i pressed into her, hahaha.

 

[biteme]

DUDE!!!

Call me, I'll send you a ticket to come here I will introduce you to all the girls at the Mens Club! You will not only get kissed but you will actually get LAID!

Then I won't have to hear all this pussy shit from a male! A movie? Three women and a porno is a date at the movies.

Do you own that place? I've been there with friends in the past.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

lol evensteve is one step closer to secks

 

[-SD-]

UPDATE:

so tonight I went and watched half a movie with her, but then she got a call from a drunk guy friend who needed a ride home from work cuz he got trashed while he was at work. He said he would drive home drunk if she didnt come out and drive him. So she stopped the movie partway to go out there.

She knew i was going clubbing tonight, so she said that I should come over to this party they were having when i got done clubbing. so i called at 2am and asked where the place was and she says "oh im too drunk, you shouldnt come over." i asked why, and she said "because there are too many guys here, and I dont want you to get mad if you see them hitting on me. I dont want any drama." I said "no dont worry, drunk guys hit on women, there wont be any drama" She said "well i dont want you to get the wrong idea thinking im trying to work you over or anything, so lets hangout tomorrow. Id like to hangout with you one on one more, I liked hanging out with you today, I'll give you a call after i wake up, how does that sound?" I said "ok" and then that was that.

Something tells me what she doesnt want me to see is her making out and possibly getting banged by a bunch of drunk dudes. Oh well. I dunno if I should care or not. I mean we're not dating. but we probably wont be, if either of us keeps this promiscuous behavior up, lol. (yes ive been acting promiscous lately, read my clubbing thread posted on 4/21)
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Drop her, now. Dont even call her, just move on. See how easy this can be?