Lack of spouse support

[Mrpumped]

Why does she control the money? If you make 75% of the total income and she makes 25%, the total still comes out to 100%. I think you're pissed off over the fact that you make more so you should do what you want, no questions asked. It doesn't work that way in marriage and you know it. You should take a certain amount of money for yourself and give her the same amount and agree that this is the weekly spending for each of you and that's that. When you think about it, I'll bet you spend way more than she does. Protein, food, all your supps, gym membership, gear= That's alot of money. Start working on your agression man, you're not a fucking teenager anymore.

 

[digger]

sort of same issue here. As far as aggression goes, I'm currently living by the principle that if I get angry, then no matter what, I'm going to assume it's the gear and that I'm wrong. It probably appears that I'm in a better mood when I'm on than when I'm off, which might actually be true since I tend to calm down once I walk away from my initial reactions.

+1 Insightful. Lotsa peeps here who should listen to you.

 

[tin2]

great idea then i can pay her spousal support and alimony until my 3 year old is 18

OJ simpson

 

[tin2]

Thats what sucks, I make 75% of the cash, meaning she works but makes far less

You guys are funny, we are happily married BTW, we just like to slam on each other, thats our relationship

I would set up a second account for my employer to deposit a % into each month, it would be fine for commission checks which are variable, but my base check she would notice if it was lower. Maybe I can just have them pull from the commission check, i'll see

start another account under a fake investment company and say its for ur future.. jsut sucks when u got to get some out ur gonna have some explaining to do..

 

[02gixxersix]

Sell your virginity on ebay.

 

[Skallagrimson]

+1 Insightful. Lotsa peeps here who should listen to you.

Ha ha! Thanks. I'm sure I'll say something really stupid to make up for it.

 

[GymIntensity]

I find it fascinating that you guys put a friggen controlled substance ahead of your wife.....

RE: women's PMS --- sure it sucks, but no we don't have a choice in the matter. You on AAS - you have a choice in the matter. The argument doesn't translate even tho both sides suck when you have to deal w/ someone else's hormone swings.


I'm not being the bitchy chick / guy basher at all - this is a constant issue when you make decisions about your own body that impact the people around you. But it is a call about the value of that relationship and how you manage that relationship. Its respect both for yourself & for the other person.

My Psychology professor in college told us in class that PMS is just a mental thing, and a woman can be happy if she wants to be while going through her cycle, or if she wants to be pissy, then she will be pissy. it all depends on the woman's mindset

 

[DJ_UFO]

If your mood and/or personality changes during cycle, is absolutely not fair for her and is her right to say no. Try to work on that first, and then take care of your own friggin money!! open a regular checking account for you and tell her that you'll transfer each week a certain amount for emergency backup; period, no questions asked. You work I guess the same 8 hours per day so put some balls on the table.

 

[Triple J]

i agree with your wife the cycles are not the right approach for you, instead go on permanently

 

[MR. BMJ]

I couldn't live like that.....may be the reason I am almost 31, single, and no kids. I'd rather pay alimony and child support than live with a demanding partner that I have to lie to.

...that being said.....you need to work on the altered mood swings. Ya can't fault her for that.

BMJ