Lack of spouse support

[hanibal]

i have the same kinda problem w/ my wife, but over past 15 years, i've learned how to manipulate everything, including, stashing $, buying big cycles, doing big cycles, controlling attitude.this is an individual skill young grasshopper, u needed to start this years ago...it may be too late for you...if u have a job w/ a direct deposit, u can set up a seperate account w/ $ going to an account unknown by her, each week. luckily for me, i can change this amount each week via internet....i work more OT, more goes in the juice fund...BUT if she really PUT her foot down, it's either stop and give in, or fight and live in misery...or chop her head off...
- start w/ controlling your attitude...without that u have little chance...

 

[caustin]

Does she make all the income or do you contribute?

Smack her on the ass, take some fucking money out of the checking acct, and start shooting. Better yet make her give you the shots. Or everytime she drinks a bottle of wine fuck her in the butt.[/

butt love will swing her for sure..

 

[Inhibitor13]

Its not fair for guys to put up with their girls bullshit and blame their sudden anger from being on the rag is it? Its ok for a girl to be moody and treat their man like shit cuz they are on their period but for the guy to be in the same state by taking aas its not? I know what he is doing is voluntary and the wife cant control whether she has her period or not....its still kinda fucked up.

So in other words...dont tell your girl you do aas. Cuz then they blame EVERY little sudden mood changes on it. Even though you probably f*ck her better while on...they seem to forget about that!

( This is just me ranting, Im going through the same dilema and damn it Im putting my foot down)

 

[blut wump]

You need to sit down and talk with your beloved spouse since it seems you have issues to resolve.

The arrangement I have with my spouse is that she and I each manage our own spare change. So long as the mortgage and bills are paid, she and I can each do whatever we will with our own and it's not a matter for communal scrutiny.

 

[ryan04]

Roll up a newspaper and smack her in the nose. After you do this a few times she'll learn her place.

 

[GOLUAN]

BRO, I HAD THE SAME PROB

go open up a serperate account..and stash money in there..thats what i did..then get the "GEAR" sent to another address.(OPEN UP A PO BOX)

 

[Sassy69]

I'll agree w/ you on the alcohol thing - however that is a relatively fleeting issue unless she's got a drinking problem. The difference between women's periods and you guys on a cycle is that we're built that way and we don't have a lot of choice in dealing w/ it. Granted its important to learn to manage it but its just part of our lives. YOU however, while on AAS (same as me or anyone else choosing to go into competition or go a on a low carb diet which also affects moods and not just in an isolated time period but in daily life), you have the CHOICE to do it and its no one else's responsibility but YOUR OWN to manage your mood swings. If they are truly that bad (and trust me, I've seen guys turn into a raving pricks while on and they don't even realize it), then you REALLY need to take a look at it-- the mood swings are PART of the cycle so just like you are going to not drink alcohol and take all sorts of supps to support the stress on your body, you should also be pro-active in learning to manage your moods.

 

[hrlydvdson1]

here is a bit of advice, "hell hath no feury like a woman scorned." when she divorces your ass she will go and tell everyone that you are on the juice. now, you may be proud of this, however, your employer may take issue with it. i dont know what kind of work you do....but....with all of the new rage about the juice, ahhh, the public says, where did this shit (that has been around forever) come from. people tend to pass harsh judgement on us. granted, every time someone says steroids are bad for you, i say why? guess what they never know! keep her out of the loop, she may love you today-----she may hate you tom....jmo, carpe diem bro.

 

[get456]

Dude start by working on you mood control.... You may not like what your wife says about it but think about it --- YOU choose to run the cycles and SHE has to deal w/ your random aggression & moodiness? That's really no different than when people choose to do competition w/ aggressive cutting diets and get pissy as hell on low-carb days. And then cry about how no one understands what they are going thru. It was YOUR choice to engage in an activity that you KNOW is mood altering - therefore it is either your responsibility to get control of & manage yourself or else stop doing it. Its not her problem at all - she has to deal w/ your decision and that's not fair.

PMS sound familiar? we deal with that EVERY fuckin month

and ps... my mood swings are LESS when im on than when i am off (and that includes when i had been off for 2+ years) I dunno if maybe i just try to control it more.. but i am WAY more stable on than off

 

[omega529]

ill tell you what.....send me 500$ threw paypal. And say your buying her a present....and then ill stop responding (like i screwed you over) and then send 450 cash to you (50$) i keep.......But the question remains, am i trust worthy?????