i'd like to say something about smalls...

[big4life]

Smalls is a pretty cool lady who I have the utmost respect for.
Not because of what she has gone through, but because of how she lives her life. She tries to be nice to others, respects their opinions. She will laugh at herself before she laughs at others.

Whatever has happened between smalls and other members on this board is between them. All I know is that I consider smalls a friend, and that's the best compliment I can give someone.

 

[HighIntensity]

what is the point of ganging up on another member? One night I happen to take too much Zinc, about 200 mgs right before I went to bad. I woke up in a sweat, fever and feeling as if death was upon me. I was going through Zinc overdose...it was smalls at 4 in the morning that helped me, now thats a real life sit,. and she was there. I don't feel sorry for smalls because frankly there is nothing to feel sorry for, yes she has recently gone through some hardship, but shes a fighter.

There was a lot more behind the sceens stuff that was directed twords her that the board could never know about.

 

[redhotavenger]

smalls.....

I never really got to know her, but I have spoken to her. And from just talking to her, I found a sweet, kind, nice girl. So I got your back smalls. Boach, Mag and I got your back babe.

 

[Franco C]

What is this in reference to?

 

[aurelius]

Very brief review please.

What´s wrong with smalls?

 

[Amp]

xoxoxoxo Nicole

 

[VicTusDeuS]

your right, surprising post from you.

What makes what I said so surprising?

 

[Milhouse]

Honestly I dont really care either way.

She seems to be nice and all, and me and her got into it once no biggie, but couple things.

1-This is the net so if anyone actually walks away from a computer and really cares what someone they know only as say for example Amandahugginkiss well time to get some perspective.

2-you guys worry too much about what someone says to another too literally. We all do sometimes(including myself) but she is a big girl who I am sure can take care of herself.

3-There is an ignore button option, so if everybody gets so worked up over what someone says to you smalls or anyone else for that matter, put them on ignore.

4-When smalls and someone else get into it(and I am not talking bout the dude who said some real awful things about the sit she went thru recently) she tends not to walk away from that thread but keeps coming back for more and building up the fire. Then when she can't handle it everybody has to save her.She might want to think about just walking away from that thread and post "whatever" and leave it at that.
I read alot of threads here and dont respond to alot of them but not just her but others get into it with someone and continue adding fuel to the fire(like that Christainity thread comes to mind.

5. Again I dont have anything against her and she puts up some funny and thoughful threads sometimes but bottom line is not everyone is going to love everybody so its best just to put people on ignore or just stay out of the thread itself if you know your gonna get ripped for being a peanut gallery.

And just because I am not towing the party line here does not mean I dont like most of you here. But if anyone gets there nose out of joint about what I just said either too bad.

Just my opinion.

As much as there are people on here who are haters(including myself at times but its mostly me being my same in real life sarcastic self) there are people on here who are way too goddam sensitive.

The real world is a million times more harsh and cruel then this or any other board can be at times.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

I wish people would speak for themselves rather than having their 'friends' do it for them.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

I wish people would speak for themselves rather than having their 'friends' do it for them.

No shit!

I am sorry but the people who get flamed simply bring upon themselves. I have not witnessed any type of unncessay "ganging up" as some may call it. As said above, if you cannot take the abuse then stop coming back for more. I do not believe it bothers Smalls one bit to get flamed. Personally I think she loves it considering the only reason she posts it to get attention that she cannot find in the "real world".