I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[Bikini Mod]

I read it just fine. Thats why I added what you missed out



some women are also scared to leave. Thats if they have a stalking phycho that they are dealing with that is gonna follow them everywhere they go and not let them be even after everything is "officially" over. I dont know why are you getting so sensitive about the subject, when us the women are not really.

There is no telling how far a sickassed motherfucker will go in order to "reclaim" what is his or hers. The old "if I cant have you then no one can" bit.

Good thing we live in the good old US otherwise OJ Simpson might not have custody of his kids.

 

[foreigngirl]

There is no telling how far a sickassed motherfucker will go in order to "reclaim" what is his or hers. The old "if I cant have you then no one can" bit.
Good thing we live in the good old US otherwise OJ Simpson might not have custody of his kids.

YES!!! Thats the ones I was reffering to. It is a good thing we live here, the courts back home dont allow that kind of thing either, but it would be a bitch trying to prove it and get protection

 

[habitualhealth]

So... Its ok for him to do such an act to her? NO it is not. Only a damn pussy would slash down on someone weaker both emotionaly and physically than he.

I personally would not have a damn thing to do with anyone of the sorts, but we are not all made of the same thread and some of us are just a tad bit weaker than others... does that give someone else the right to take advantage of us and beat us?

This is so true.

An emotionally weakminded person who doesn't give a crap will suck the life right out of someone who represents strength and will. Someone with half a brain would feed off of that strength and will and try to better themself.

 

[Bikini Mod]

YES!!! Thats the ones I was reffering to. It is a good thing we live here, the courts back home dont allow that kind of thing either, but it would be a bitch trying to prove it and get protection

Sadly those laws have been abused by scum as well. It is so sad how the laws that were designed to protect the rights of decent people are commonly being abused and manipulated by the very scum that the decent people were supposed to be protected from. That is the price we pay for Justice's blindness I suppose.

There is no justice but only perception and marketing.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Where did I say it was right? I never said it was right. Go back and read what I wrote and be rational not emotional.

KB is merely making a statement all too many times people allow themself to be a victim of there life and situation. Once you have been a victim of domestic violence and or crime you need to accept the responsibility of what you could have done to prevent it from happening, in the first place and prevent it from ever happening again. I do not condone what he did at all. I am just saying that she gave him the power to do this to her. She needs to take the power back and learn from the situation so history never repeats it self if she doesn’t it surely will happen again.

 

[Frisky]

This is so true.

An emotionally weakminded person who doesn't give a crap will suck the life right out of someone who represents strength and will. Someone with half a brain would feed off of that strength and will and try to better themself.

I have witnessed this, more emotionally than physically... Not to me but someone that I care for. No one deserves to be abused, biet physical or emotional.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Apparently you have never sat by the side of someone that was beaten to near death.

Never assume shit there are things that I have seen and experienced in my lifetime that I rarely, if ever speak of.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I do not condone what he did at all. I am just saying that she gave him the power to do this to her. She needs to take the power back and learn from the situation so history never repeats it self if she doesn’t it surely will happen again.

We all read the same posts and interpret them based on our life experiences. It is VERY easy to miscommunicate in real time, on the web this is multiplied exponentially.

You are correct in your statement because if the person that was abused does not learn in themselves what went awry in order for this to happen then it will happen again, just a different man.

But we ALL need to educate ourselves about abuse. Some abusers lack the tools to behave in a way that is NOT abusive - they dont know any other way either.

Treating both sides of the phenomena with the gravity they deserve is the best option. No one should ever tolerate abuse. But we should all arm ourselves with information so that we can help ourselves as well as help each other.

Knowledge is power.

 

[Frisky]

Where did I say it was right? I never said it was right. Go back and read what I wrote and be rational not emotional.

KB is merely making a statement all too many times people allow themself to be a victim of there life and situation. Once you have been a victim of domestic violence and or crime you need to accept the responsibility of what you could have done to prevent it from happening, in the first place and prevent it from ever happening again. I do not condone what he did at all. I am just saying that she gave him the power to do this to her. She needs to take the power back and learn from the situation so history never repeats it self if she doesn’t it surely will happen again.

learn... sure... we all learn from situation to situation. But again, I repeat... some are not as strong as others. So does that ever EVER give another person the right to violate them in such a manner.

I would like to post more but I don't believe I should post it open forum. Witnessed quite a bit, and I will again say, some are just weaker beings than others... Still there is no reason for anyone to beat the hell out of someone else 'just because they want to be in control'

 

[superqt4u2nv]

We all read the same posts and interpret them based on our life experiences. It is VERY easy to miscommunicate in real time, on the web this is multiplied exponentially.

You are correct in your statement because if the person that was abused does not learn in themselves what went awry in order for this to happen then it will happen again, just a different man.

But we ALL need to educate ourselves about abuse. Some abusers lack the tools to behave in a way that is NOT abusive - they dont know any other way either.

Treating both sides of the phenomena with the gravity they deserve is the best option. No one should ever tolerate abuse. But we should all arm ourselves with information so that we can help ourselves as well as help each other.

Knowledge is power.

WERD