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KillahBee said:
KB, I can't believe you would condone anyone doing such a horrific thing. So what if she posted pics, did this and that... does that give him any right to hurt someone? When put in this type of situation you just walk out not hurt the other party, try to pull them thru broken glass.
Its amazing the different responses from those that have kids and those that don't. NO ONE ever should have to endure domestic violence. I don't care what the cause is.
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reno240 said:
"Unless the bitch cheated. Then he has every right to drive her skull into cement."
You all would be shocked at how many homeys share this twisted view on domestic violence.
On second thought, this is elite. None of you would be shocked as they openly post up about it.
Wow whole lot of people jumping on KB. What he said was yes some what insensitive but what he is driving at is a very good point. You allow yourself to become a victim. She even stated there were signs etc of his behavior but she allowed it to continue. I am not saying that she deserved it at all, but she did let it happen. She should have ran at the first signs of him getting more and more controlling. This could have been much worse so thankfully she is getting out now.
superqt4u2nv said:
But does that make what he did right? I wouldn't care who it was if they condone such behavior I will have something to say. A person like that (her beau) looks for those that will allow this kind of controlling behavior. We are all made up different, some of us would have sparked back, some of us just allow it to happen and then blame ourselves.
I don't condone it, I don't care what the cause. The only reason anyone should ever raise their hand to anyone else is in an act of self defense.
Apparently you have never sat by the side of someone that was beaten to near death. I have... and it was not a pretty sight. Why didn't she walk away? Because he had convinced her that she deserved it. Why was she convinced? Because of a lifetime of abuse and belittlement.
So... Its ok for him to do such an act to her? NO it is not. Only a damn pussy would slash down on someone weaker both emotionaly and physically than he.
I personally would not have a damn thing to do with anyone of the sorts, but we are not all made of the same thread and some of us are just a tad bit weaker than others... does that give someone else the right to take advantage of us and beat us?
I have to weigh on this because I was in a situation with a VERY jealous and controlling woman. Now - she didn't try to physically harm me - but the progession to crazy was slow and I didn't realize what was happening until it was really bad. There were small signs - that I notice in retrospect - but at the time I was clueless. It was weird, but one day, I turn around and realize that this chick was fucking insane. I just say this because sometimes, you don't even know what's happening until something really big happens.superqt4u2nv said:
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reno240 said:
I am SO GLAD that a man posted this.
Abusive relationships go both ways, sadly when it is female on male it goes reported even less frequently as there is a greater stigma attached to it.
The controlling sick shit starts VERY small and subtly. They dont start calling you names and punching you in the jaw on the first date.
Before I got counseling and left my 13 yr marriage of hell I hadnt clue one what was controlling/abusive behavior. Once I got my head straight I could sniff it out a mile away.
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cboogsrun said:
I read it just fine. Thats why I added what you missed out
cboogsrun said:
some women are also scared to leave. Thats if they have a stalking phycho that they are dealing with that is gonna follow them everywhere they go and not let them be even after everything is "officially" over. I dont know why are you getting so sensitive about the subject, when us the women are not really.
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I don't condone it, I don't care what the cause. The only reason anyone should ever raise their hand to anyone else is in an act of self defense.
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I have to agree with Frisky here - I am a bit old school and believe any man who strikes a woman is no man at all. I had a sister who lived in an abuses relationship and the only reason she is alive today is that she would hide his gun in a different place every night the time he finally went for the gun, she was half way down the street before he found it.
She should have bolted the first time he abused them!!!
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I have to agree with Frisky here - I am a bit old school and believe any man who strikes a woman is no man at all. I had a sister who lived in an abuses relationship and the only reason she is alive today is that she would hide his gun in a different place every night the time he finally went for the gun, she was half way down the street before he found it.
She should have bolted the first time he abused them!!!
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