i aint tha joker but you peeps suck......

[layinback]

I see your wife upgraded from just the cable dude.

the pool cleaning guy, mexican gangbangs with the landscaping crew
cable guy etc.. never know what zany shit she's gonna do next!

 

[layinback]

i reckon i made my point.

when the shit hits the fan in my life, and it does from time to time, first thing i look at is my part. 99.9 % of have some responsibility in the matter.
blaming, finger pointing and justification are all efforts to escape the anxiety of looking at your own shit. the irony is that if you accept 100% responsibility
for your life, you'll find yourself in a life with less drama and anxiety. even when you practice this to the best of your ability, you find yourself justifying
the most ridiculous actions occasionally. socrates said the unexamined life isn't worth living.

 

[shirlene29]

wow, i don't pay attention teh drama around here anymore. just catching up now

seems like joker is in the post traumatic victim mentality. It's not uncommon. I know i've been through it for a year or more of my life. I'm sure many of us have. Life falls apart,girl gone, job gone, start blaming others...use unhealthy addictions and escapes to avoid any form of pain or discomfort. (FYI joker, stop with the World of warcraft bullshit. You might as well be using heroine because it's serving the same purpose. And this is coming from someone who's a gamer.)

once you learn to free yourself of that mentality, you start doing real things with your life and moving forward. At the end of the day, you are accountable for what happens in your life in some way shape or form. Real "Men" Don't victimize themselves, they are accountable for their life and molding their life into what they want it to be. Being a man is not just about being testosterone filled, loud, territorial and jacked, it's about accepting responsibility for yourself and the things that happen in your life. No matter how many detours or setbacks, you can still attain most goals you set out to do with enough time, learning and effort.

again, i haven't kept with the drama and read maybe a few posts and just have an inkling of whats going on. So i don't know if this is justified or just the mob mentality at work. Truthfully? I feel a little bad for the guy. I'm sure he's brought it upon himself in some way as far as the backlash, but the guy's life is in shambles. The reality is his whole world and existence for x amount of years has come into question. Job, girl...things you invest a lot of time and hours to and all of a sudden they're gone. Self worth hits the toilet, etc.Now, was he dumb for making either of those choices? I'm willing to bet yes. MyWay has crazy written on her forehead. That's not to say he deserves a pity party either. You feel sad and grieve for awhile....and then you pick up the fuckin pieces and never repeat the same mistakes you made before.

Homeboy just needs to accept it,move on and create a new life. External things don't deny yourself existence. You define you. Life is a continuum. I'm not the same person i was this morning, and neither is anybody. I learned a bunch of shit that i didnt know before and had ideas i never had before...and tomorrow could be another day like that. Anyone who doesn't understand the concept of personal growth really is not living life...at all. they're existing, but not they're living. god, that must fuckin suck to live that way.

pussy comes and goes. so does love. so does money. so do friends. Times when you have a lot of it, and when you don't. just need to accept whatever the fuck is going on at the very moment and face it and ride with it. Whether it's the most ridiculous amazing time or the worst fuckin times, neither will last forever.


no matter what happens in life, at the end of the day you can always look in the mirror and say "what could i have done if anything, to make this situation better or not be in it?". Don't sulk about it like a 5 year old or get down on yourself for not doing it or realizing it. look at it analytically, digest it and make it fuckin right the next time around.

this was deeply deep...


and after looking at the time stamp for the post...I know why

 

[-SD-]

We need an Executive Elite Mentor position for layinback.

 

[digimon7068]

i reckon i made my point.

when the shit hits the fan in my life, and it does from time to time, first thing i look at is my part. 99.9 % of have some responsibility in the matter.
blaming, finger pointing and justification are all efforts to escape the anxiety of looking at your own shit. the irony is that if you accept 100% responsibility
for your life, you'll find yourself in a life with less drama and anxiety. even when you practice this to the best of your ability, you find yourself justifying
the most ridiculous actions occasionally. socrates said the unexamined life isn't worth living.

somewhere, a drug rep, who has taken his fourth pay cut for the year, is spending his nest egg, taking out a contract on your responsible ass for trying to take another round out of his anti-anxiety market...when we're cruising the vegas strip and i yell "duck!!!", don't sit there going "quack, quack" like the idiot tu pac did

 

[Sub-Zero]

everybody on EF and others are responsible for my problems. life sucks.
i can't get my way, nobody likes me, everybody bullies me. women are
whores. my wife ran off the the direct tv guy etc...

word, but at least u got free cable out of it

 

[-SD-]

word, but at least u got free cable out of it

dont forget shes a woman still, probably forgot to take him for free cable for teh fuck.

 

[RottenWillow]

Life sucks, then you die.

or


your wife doesn't suck, then you die.

 

[layinback]

We need an Executive Elite Mentor position for layinback.

no thanx! i have one of those in real life. this is fun and relaxing.....i don't
wanna work here!

 

[layinback]

somewhere, a drug rep, who has taken his fourth pay cut for the year, is spending his nest egg, taking out a contract on your responsible ass for trying to take another round out of his anti-anxiety market...when we're cruising the vegas strip and i yell "duck!!!", don't sit there going "quack, quack" like the idiot tu pac did

lol how true it is!

The benzodiazepines are maketed as anxiolotics. The benzos were assigned a
schedule IV under the contolled substance act and it took its place along side
Darvon, Meprobamate, Talwin and the other drugs with an alledged low
potential for abuse. This means that you can get up to 5 refills in a 6 month
period and all in all, most Docs do not view it as a highly abused class of
drugs.

At best, benzos are effective for acute anxiety such as the sudden loss of
a loved one or for a circumstantial issue like having to fly when you are
terrified of flying. These drugs tend to lose their effectivness in a few
weeks. Repeated use, in some individuals, leads to tolerance and a physical
dependence that is much worse than heroin. The short acting benzos
are particularly nasty. Xanax addiction and withdrawl is THE worst of all
drugs.

The drug companies that market this shit know the real deal. They knew when
they created the "xanax bar", that they'd have customers for life.