Have you ever dropped a relationship

[mrdeeznuts]

for no apparent reason at all?

I've been told time and time again that the closer I get to liking someone, liking to spend time with them, the further I pull away. Mostly its because i begin to get a bad feeling about pursuing it. Sometimes its just because... I have no reason at all. I've had less than a handful (2) of relationships that have penetrated my outer core and I actually gave a shit about when it ended.

I'm sure some will say, I'll end up dying a loney ol hag.. but in a way, thats a OK, with me because I have to truely believe in someone to let them fully into my life. If there is one spark of hesitation along the ride than I'm usually out of there quick.

you need to get laid, there's to many relationship questions coming from you

 

[Frisky]

you need to get laid, there's to many relationship questions coming from you

curious minds wanna know

 

[mrdeeznuts]

curious minds wanna know

ok since you have forgotten

sex is the best thing on earth....

better than ice cream, better than that barbie dream house you go on your 18th birthday, and better than all the bullets in the world

 

[Frisky]

ok since you have forgotten

sex is the best thing on earth....

better than ice cream, better than that barbie dream house you go on your 18th birthday, and better than all the bullets in the world

Thanks for reminding me...

 

[mrdeeznuts]

Thanks for reminding me...

u know the rates

 

[slat1]

for no apparent reason at all?

I've been told time and time again that the closer I get to liking someone, liking to spend time with them, the further I pull away. Mostly its because i begin to get a bad feeling about pursuing it. Sometimes its just because... I have no reason at all. I've had less than a handful (2) of relationships that have penetrated my outer core and I actually gave a shit about when it ended.

I'm sure some will say, I'll end up dying a loney ol hag.. but in a way, thats a OK, with me because I have to truely believe in someone to let them fully into my life. If there is one spark of hesitation along the ride than I'm usually out of there quick.

I believe I touched on this in another thread!

 

[mrdeeznuts]

I believe I touched on this in another thread!

simmer down dr. phil

 

[Frisky]

I believe I touched on this in another thread!

I think you did.

I believe the case right now is so much going on in my life, and I feel stretched from one end of the spectrum to the other. Nothing to do with the men at all, most are very good guys. A few wise women told me that I prolly just need some time alone, and I agree. Maybe thats what it is.

 

[vinylgroover]

See I'm just the opposite. Every one of my long term relationships has started with friendship first. I like to get to know someone before I get that close to them. In my experience, once you know someone very well it makes the next step much easier and comfortable. Hell usually it just kinda happens for me, before I even know what is going on.

But it always starts with me knowing and trusting them before it leads to something more than friends. Hell, a good relationship/marriage is really just very close friendship with benefits when you get right down to it.

it's something i am trying to do. i have always taken the approach that unless i got that instant feeling of lust and fire in the belly, it wasn't for me. That approach has got me nowhere, so now i want to try a different tack and try to cultivate something from a friendship first.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

erz

you're a Cajun girl. You can't help being who you are.