Have you ever dropped a relationship

[Cutiebaby]

ewww

I dropped one relationship my Sr. year because after 2 months of just dating (no sex either) I bring him over to my grandmothers house to introduce him.. (we are very close) and he starts telling her he's gonna marry me and he had all these plans for my sr. trip, wanted to take me scubs diving and on this cruise.. blah blah.

Scared the living bejesus out of me. He was gone the next day. I was SO not ready for something serious at the pt in my life. Sometimes I could slap myself upside my head because he is a great man, and would have made an excellent husband. Still see him from time to time, he's friends with my sisters husbands family. But I was way to young to be thinking about marriage.

hun i know this is a serious ? and if you want to pm me about it you can but if you read my post in the previous page i kind of know what i am saying...BUT were you severly hurt by some one?? you seem to me by reading your posts on here that you are scared of some thing serious....i am just wondering what is going on with you..and you know if you need some one i am here to listen!

 

[Frisky]

hun i know this is a serious ? and if you want to pm me about it you can but if you read my post in the previous page i kind of know what i am saying...BUT were you severly hurt by some one?? you seem to me by reading your posts on here that you are scared of some thing serious....i am just wondering what is going on with you..and you know if you need some one i am here to listen!

Honestly, I can't say i've ever been seriously hurt in any relationship. Sure my childhood wasn't all peaches and cream, but I keep that out of my relationships. I've been the same way all of my life. Very few get past my core, and those that do have never really done me wrong. And the one that slightly did, i am just as much at fault as he is. So I don't blame him.

Maybe im just programmed to be this way? I dunno, I've been digging into my issues with commitment for years. I've been able to commit for 11 years and never looked back. Relationship to relationship is different though. It takes a special man to get to me, and I can honestly say those are few and far inbetween. Not saying there aren't plenty of great men, just not what im looking for.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Honestly, I can't say i've ever been seriously hurt in any relationship. Sure my childhood wasn't all peaches and cream, but I keep that out of my relationships. I've been the same way all of my life. Very few get past my core, and those that do have never really done me wrong. And the one that slightly did, i am just as much at fault as he is. So I don't blame him.

Maybe im just programmed to be this way? I dunno, I've been digging into my issues with commitment for years. I've been able to commit for 11 years and never looked back. Relationship to relationship is different though. It takes a special man to get to me, and I can honestly say those are few and far inbetween. Not saying there aren't plenty of great men, just not what im looking for.

hun i am not trying to dig into your past i am sying maybe a previous boyfirend or husband has hurt you...who knows maybe you are not ready to recover from the divorce yet...maybe after being married you need some alone time....I honestly IMO think maybe you should call him or what not because every lady deserves a man...excuse me if this is not my buisness..you being one of the nicest helpfull ladies on e.f i thought i would but in..plus i have been drinking so i have some balls LOL...but i think you two were some what meant to be and you know what i am talking about......hun get past all the bad and look for the good it is the only way to live in this life....you both deserve sooo much....even if i am wrong and there is another mr true right out there give him a chance...every one atleast deserves a chance

 

[Frisky]

hun i am not trying to dig into your past i am sying maybe a previous boyfirend or husband has hurt you...who knows maybe you are not ready to recover from the divorce yet...maybe after being married you need some alone time....I honestly IMO think maybe you should call him or what not because every lady deserves a man...excuse me if this is not my buisness..you being one of the nicest helpfull ladies on e.f i thought i would but in..plus i have been drinking so i have some balls LOL...but i think you two were some what meant to be and you know what i am talking about......hun get past all the bad and look for the good it is the only way to live in this life....you both deserve sooo much....even if i am wrong and there is another mr true right out there give him a chance...every one atleast deserves a chance

lol

its ok sugar.. call who? My thread about men hating was a huge joke. I don't hate men, actually and honestly i've been burned by more women friends than i ever have by men. My best and most trustworthy friends were men. I have had some assholes in my life, both men and women, but believe me.. i can in a blink of an eye shut them off and move on. I don't linger on that shit, i have no time for that. I'm a busy person with a goal, a carrer and a family.

My X and I will never be one again. Its just not meant to be. I see it he doesn't , thats the way the ball rolls. I would never be happy with him again, even though I once was. I've always been firm on the belief that once I say im done, I mean it.. really done. If I have to leave or make you leave its bad enough that it can't be fixed or mended. My X and I were together for 11 years with out one break up, Im a very easy going person but when enough was enough and it was that time, then I knew i walked away without looking back. I'm not in for any games.

He's out there, i know he is.. may take weeks, months, years... but one day I'll meet someone that will fulfill me. But if not than the life i've experienced was amazing.

 

[EnderJE]

He's out there, i know he is.. may take weeks, months, years... but one day I'll meet someone that will fulfill me.

Too bad he's gay.

But, you'll have a great hairdresser.

 

[Raptorex]

a man with a penis....go for it.

 

[Frisky]

a man with a penis....go for it.

thats the problem that gawd damn penis lol

 

[bicepts101]

I've dropped a relationship because her breath stunk and I didn't feel I should have to tell her, "Brush your teeth!"

yep ive dont the same thing....it doesnt matter after u get comfortable but in the begining that stuff is so important

 

[Spartacus]

You know, I got a woman
And she lives in the poor part of town
and I go see her sometimes
And we make love, so fine
I put my head on her shoulder
She says, "Tell me all your troubles."
You know what she says? She says
"Daddy you're a fool to cry
You're a fool to cry
and it makes me wonder why."

 

[Forge]

I've never been good at starting friendship and going from there... once a friend, he stays a friend. I've had plenty of guy friends in my life that would have made excellent mates, but after becoming so close to them as friends i felt uncomfortable going any further.

However, I know that three of the four lt relationships i have had we ended up being best friends. Didn't start there but eneded up in that state. I have to have that mixture of romance and friendship to consider a lasting relationship.

See I'm just the opposite. Every one of my long term relationships has started with friendship first. I like to get to know someone before I get that close to them. In my experience, once you know someone very well it makes the next step much easier and comfortable. Hell usually it just kinda happens for me, before I even know what is going on.

But it always starts with me knowing and trusting them before it leads to something more than friends. Hell, a good relationship/marriage is really just very close friendship with benefits when you get right down to it.