Got fucked over robs!

[lartinos]

She's cheating on you

 

[puddlemonkey]

Support her regardless so I don't have to via welfare. kthx!

 

[nangiggles]

We're here for you rob.

^^^ This, some of us (myself included) loved giving you shit but this is a delicate serious situation and personally I am sorry you are going through this and wish you the best...

She's cheating on you

damn it Lartinos I'm trying to be serious.... but yeah I saw that one coming

 

[canadianhitman]

In most states the county seat is where the courthouse complex is and that's where you'll end up going.

Here's the thing, UNLESS you're really convinced this baby is yours and you want to stay in the baby's life, you kind of have to wait for her to make the first strike (which would be filing for child support) and then you respond.

If you're really intent on being on the offensive and want to push for the paternity test then you will need to contact a lawyer, but expect to put out the fee for at least a few hours consultation with a lawyer, plus the cost of filing fees and the cost of the paternity test.

I would think (I'm NOT 100%, we really need a father whose gone through this in California OR a lawyer's input), that she has to bear the burden of the cost of the DNA test if it's court ordered and you aren't the father. You might have to split it with her if it's found to be your kid.

Basically, you're only course of action is to CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH HER, now, permanently. Force all communication to take place via email (so you have record of anything that she says to you). If she leaves you voice messages or texts, save anything that might be pertinent down the road.

Oh, and be absolutely civil to her. Do not do a Mel Gibson. Never have any contact with her in an agitated mental state.

Great advice given to you here...I hope you heed it.

 

[canadianhitman]

Paternity test before she fucks you over even more.

Even if you get back together with her, you MUST get the paternity test done. Because if you don't, and start helping to raise this kid, you are fucked; even if you figure out it's not yours later, you'd still be on the hook for child support once you establish a pattern of being a parent figure. I know that sounds outlandish, but there are precedents.

Don't be a retard like so many guys are in this situation!!!

 

[wootoom]

Fuck i hate cheaters....i'm sorry to hear bro it's a shitty situation, been there...if you any questions or concerns let me know bro

 

[EnderJE]

Tell us when you're feeling better so we can make fun of this.

 

[redshirt27se]

you probably don't want to hear this, but she was probably fucking her ex the entire time you've been with her. there's a good chance she was pregnant before you even fucked her the first time. she's clearly not trustful, for all you know she waited till you raw dogged it a few times and popped it on you. the fact she said she'd never do a paternity test is sketchy as fuck. does she not want to know who the real father of her child is? totally selfish. it's not about you and her. it's about an innocent kid knowing who his real dad is.

 

[Lancer55]

you probably don't want to hear this, but she was probably fucking her ex the entire time you've been with her. there's a good chance she was pregnant before you even fucked her the first time. she's clearly not trustful, for all you know she waited till you raw dogged it a few times and popped it on you. the fact she said she'd never do a paternity test is sketchy as fuck. does she not want to know who the real father of her child is? totally selfish. it's not about you and her. it's about an innocent kid knowing who his real dad is.

This ^^^ plus you don't want to raise somone elses kid when you could be raising your own.

 

[-SD-]

I wish i could say i feel your pain or something but honestly ive never been through a preg fiance cheating. Although i have had unwanted pregs that ive had to handle my buziness wirh so take that as you will rob
Either way im here