got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Bor, time heals all wounds, it will only be a matter of time before you are out of this slump. The best advice I can offer is to sever all communications with this girl. I don’t really think she is relationship material dude…
When a woman gives you the “It’s not you, it’s me” bullshit talk, it usually means they are too busy jumping on new cock to be a good girlfriend to you. The worst is when they tell you that “Things might change in the future”, all they are really trying to say is “I will jump on a few dicks for a while, if I can’t find anybody that makes me cum frequently and treats me like a lady the way you did… I’ll be back. If I find better, then I’ll ask you to please stop calling me.”….
Staying friends with her will only serve to break your heart when you realize she is fucking other dudes, and sucking them off the way you taught her to do it to you. The worst is that if she can’t find a good mate, and you are seeing somebody special, she might try to sabotage your new relationship (happened to me).
You have to understand that somebody in a serious relationship doesn’t just up and realize they want to meet other people and see what it is like to date other people… Her eyes have been fucking wondering for a while, looking at the green grass on the singles side, she just now decided it is time to leave the safety and comfort of your relationship to take the plunge into the dating scene. Fuck her, don’t fucking talk to that biotch anymore. Drop her cold turnkey like a bad habit and don’t look back.

Far easier said then done man... and right now, as pathetic as it may seem, hearing her voice, seeing her calling me, or emailing me.. that is still probably the best feeling I've got going on right now... all other times are just incredibly BLAH at best... and fucking sad at worst.

I am taking some of this advice to heart though and I talked to her yesterday and said yes we probably shouldn't talk like this for a while (we had talked multiple times yesterday). She agreed and I think we will move forward from there.

I am heading to Vegas tonight for a bachelor party. Normally I'd say great timing, a perfect change to escape from this misery.. but things are still so new and fresh I don't know how much fun it will be. I imagine if I get drunk it will make me more emotional. Talking to chicks in vegas is just gonna highlight how hard it is to find someone special and how easy it is to just find chicks that wanna bang, but don't have shit else going for them.... it very well could be the worst vegas trip ever!

I'm gonna be with 30 other dudes though.. bachelor party.. some of my closest friends.. so that is a big plus.. I can make this fun.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Your post just confirmed my original suspicion. That biotch is a scandalous ass ho and wants to fuck around with other dudes. Belive me when I tell you bro, she didn’t just become like this because of something you triggered. The chick has been potential slut material for as long as you’ve known her. Now that you helped her burn the fat off her ass, and taught her how to give good head, now she has the courage to go try it out with other people. She was feeling “safe” with you that’s why she didn’t leave before… She will be a mess in a couple of years, you'll see.

Haha man.. in your own way you sure know how to make a homie feel better. I was literally laughing out loud reading this one.

I don't know if I really can bring myself to agree with it, but thanks for at least making me smile.

 

[gonelifting]

Re: got dumped..

Life is`nt like a book. So I`m gonna say this... Never say never. People are telling you to dump her and never look back. That me be the right idea but no one knows for sure. Leave all possiblities open. That`s all I`m saying.

Sometimes when someone thinks on their own, they get into a certain mindset where their decisions and thoughts become real before anything real happens. You then make up your mind just by thinking too much about things and if you were ever given another"chance" or opportunity, you get all confused because you`ve already made up your mind.

Never say never. That`s all I`m saying.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Re: got dumped..

Far easier said then done man... and right now, as pathetic as it may seem, hearing her voice, seeing her calling me, or emailing me.. that is still probably the best feeling I've got going on right now... all other times are just incredibly BLAH at best... and fucking sad at worst.

I am taking some of this advice to heart though and I talked to her yesterday and said yes we probably shouldn't talk like this for a while (we had talked multiple times yesterday). She agreed and I think we will move forward from there.

I am heading to Vegas tonight for a bachelor party. Normally I'd say great timing, a perfect change to escape from this misery.. but things are still so new and fresh I don't know how much fun it will be. I imagine if I get drunk it will make me more emotional. Talking to chicks in vegas is just gonna highlight how hard it is to find someone special and how easy it is to just find chicks that wanna bang, but don't have shit else going for them.... it very well could be the worst vegas trip ever!

I'm gonna be with 30 other dudes though.. bachelor party.. some of my closest friends.. so that is a big plus.. I can make this fun.

That is where you are wrong dude... she wasn't anything special, she just put on a good act while she had time to decide between keeping her good boyfriend or exploring the exciting world of NewCock... She was never relationship material, while you were trying to build something she was busy wondering what “freedom” would feel like. You didn't really lose anything. You think you did, but you didn’t… she did you a favor by showing her true colors now. Better now that 10 years from now and 2 kids later. That’s how a “crime of passion” unfolds.

 

[velvett]

Re: got dumped..

The reasons she gave me at the time were that she wasn't happy with who she was right now. She had this feeling in the back of her mind from time to time that she needed to live life on her own, be single, have some new adventures, meet new people, know what its like to just date.

Now, I sure hope there is no one she had her eye on, that would suck. And here is where I may have dropped the ball...... about maybe 6 months ago.. maybe longer.. we had a talk... it was a near breakup... she felt she wasn't right for me.. that I could be happier with someone else.. that something was missing. And she also mentioned at this time that she has this thought that was eating away at her.. the thought that she just wanted to be single, go out, have fun, do whatever.... freedom.
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Big Rick Rock - is right.

Think about what she said above and think about why a man would say this to a woman - doesn't change just because it's from a woman to a man.

She's telling you that you could be happier with someone else because she doesn't want to her your feelings in telling you that she think that she would be happier with someone else.

As for love - sometimes people confuse love with freindship and love with great sex.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

That is where you are wrong dude... she wasn't anything special, she just put on a good act while she had time to decide between keeping her good boyfriend or exploring the exciting world of NewCock... She was never relationship material, while you were trying to build something she was busy wondering what “freedom” would feel like. You didn't really lose anything. You think you did, but you didn’t… she did you a favor by showing her true colors now. Better now that 10 years from now and 2 kids later. That’s how a “crime of passion” unfolds.

Ok.. well what I meant by someone special was someone who I feel like dating more then just a month or two.. someone who I look forward to seeing every day.. where it doesn't feel like you are just serving time, doing what it takes to keep her happy because you want some regular pussy... someone who is exciting at first but that quickly fades and you are left wishing you had just stayed single.

its easy to get dates.. even to get laid.. but to find someone you can confide in.. share everything with.. that is what I mean by special.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Big Rick Rock - is right.

Think about what she said above and think about why a man would say this to a woman - doesn't change just because it's from a woman to a man.

She's telling you that you could be happier with someone else because she doesn't want to her your feelings in telling you that she think that she would be happier with someone else.

As for love - sometimes people confuse love with freindship and love with great sex.

I disagree here a bit.

The reason why, I have felt the same way. My first love, my first serious relationship, it started when I was 21. She was awesome, and the feeling of being in love was all completely new to me. It was incredible and we shared so many great times and first together. But... all along, I did have this feeling that as great as she was, this wasn't "it"... not because I knew of anything specific that was wrong with her, but because I was 21.. (22 when we broke up) and I just knew that my dating life was just starting, not about to end.. that i hadn't really realized my full dating potential.. and as good as this felt, there is more out there in life...

now after we broke up it did suck and I had a lot of completely meaningless and unfulfilling relationships..... and then we ended up getting back together after a year apart.

We dated for another year... she was ready to get married.. I wasn't.. I felt like she was special.. some who could potentially be my wife... but I just wasn't ready YET....

she broke up with me and married the next guy she started dating.

At this point now... nearly 3 years later... I say good for her.. I am glad she found someone that makes her happy and I know she is an awesome girl. Our timing sucked... but I don't lay blame on anyone.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

again, thanks everyone for all the thoughtfull remarks.. some of these posts I am reading and then re-reading over and over and it helps...

I'm able to have my first meal of the day today finally.

 

[bran987]

Re: got dumped..

again, thanks everyone for all the thoughtfull remarks.. some of these posts I am reading and then re-reading over and over and it helps...

I'm able to have my first meal of the day today finally.

can't wait for you to feel better, I'm itching for another one of your juicy exclusive EF interviews buddy

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

can't wait for you to feel better, I'm itching for another one of your juicy exclusive EF interviews buddy

thanks man, I appreciate it.