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Girlfriend testing me
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psizzle_8
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i say good for her for trying to get you to man up. a man should have trunks for legs so hit the squat rack and start doing cleans, deads, etc. lots of calf work etc.
she probably is embarassed that her legs are bigger than yours, a lot of guys at the gym don't even work legs.. just upper body so i'm glad this girl has the balls to call you out on it. I would love if a chick criticized me like this, it would tell me what i needed to work more on. don't be insecure about it, use it to your advantage. cause your next gf is gonna think the same thing so correct it now so it doesn't come up in the future
she probably is embarassed that her legs are bigger than yours, a lot of guys at the gym don't even work legs.. just upper body so i'm glad this girl has the balls to call you out on it. I would love if a chick criticized me like this, it would tell me what i needed to work more on. don't be insecure about it, use it to your advantage. cause your next gf is gonna think the same thing so correct it now so it doesn't come up in the future
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it. 
His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
themondtster
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Mine calls me fat.....says its motivation
Don't get really mad yet. It's not fair to jump to mad before telling someone plainly and honestly how their action makes you feel.
People are too quick to assume that someone hurting them knows their actions are hurtful. Most people are far too unaware of others to have thought through exactly how hurtful something may be when they are not the one being hurt.
Tell her it hurts you. If she does it after that, she's made her intentions to hurt you plain or at the very least, decided she doesn't care if she does or not, and moved from passive-aggressive to straight aggressive.
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it.
His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
I agree.
People should look good and be healthy for themselves first and their partner second. I think it's ok in a relationship to encourage and motivate your partner to look and be their best if it comes from a place of love and wanting the best for them - not if it's from a place of what's best for you.
It's not ok, though, to nag someone about specific flaws thinking they'll change.
There's a big difference between the "lets go to the gym and get hot together" sentiment and a "your ____ looks like shit. You need to go to the gym and fix it" one.
yeah...I tease my other half about shit..but in private and its never a tear down
I'd never tear him down in front of someone. Thats shitty no matter how you slice it
legs don't come naturally to some people and Ive known way more guys with bad wheels than good wheels
tell her shes taking the teasing too far shes making you self concious and youre workin on the legs..if she continues, get mad and call her ass fat
I'd never tear him down in front of someone. Thats shitty no matter how you slice it
legs don't come naturally to some people and Ive known way more guys with bad wheels than good wheels
tell her shes taking the teasing too far shes making you self concious and youre workin on the legs..if she continues, get mad and call her ass fat
are you serious? Not only is it shallow, it's abusive. Why are you condoning abuse? His girlfriend should encourage him and build him up, not tear him down. There is no reason for someone to make comments like that in front of people when she knows it bothers him. He should only develop his legs because it's what he wants to do, not because his girlfriend humiliates him into doing it.
His screen name is from 2010. He has been insecure about his legs for a minute.
sounds like they got together.. she knew he had skinny legs but was okay with it, not a deal breaker yet.. but now since she worked out and improved herself she feels like he isn't keeping up with her physically so she is giving him hints that he needs to improve his legs. i don't see the relationship lasting regardless but if he wants to avoid the problem in the future he should definately fix his chicken legs not for her but for himself.
if it was a guy doing this to a girl it would be ridiculous i agree.
and she shouldn't be doing it in public that is immature. but sounds like they are young anyway and she doesn't care
