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GF told me yesterday she was looking for someone else...

Wulfgar

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Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"
 
I really am still kind of in shock..she seemed so sincere and matter of fact about it that I was kind of blown away
I guess she needs props for the straight up brutal honesty.

I told her I needed to think about it before I got back to her. we are going to a play tonight but I think afterwards I may just tell her I need to call it quits.
 
Wulfgar said:
Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"


The old "It's over....but I still want to see you." Yup, I got that too. It's the easiest way for chics to save their emotional health, withdrawing slowly from a relationship they aren't feeling good about, until something better pops into their lap. At this point it's virtually impossible to salvage, save a miracle turn around. I did my last in sooner by accusing her of cheating on me during this time. Our contact ceased after that. I still feel kinda bad since she was a good girl but I wasn't ready for a relationship like I wanted to be. Oh well. I heard she's already seeing someone else. I, however, am cool with being alone for the time being. Much easier that way.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
The old "It's over....but I still want to see you." Yup, I got that too. It's the easiest way for chics to save their emotional health, withdrawing slowly from a relationship they aren't feeling good about, until something better pops into their lap. At this point it's virtually impossible to salvage, save a miracle turn around. I did my last in sooner by accusing her of cheating on me during this time. Our contact ceased after that. I still feel kinda bad since she was a good girl but I wasn't ready for a relationship like I wanted to be. Oh well. I heard she's already seeing someone else. I, however, am cool with being alone for the time being. Much easier that way.
ya that is rough man...
it is just weird thats all..I am no stranger to breakups...but normally the girls are much more coniving and secretive than this one is.
 
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Wulfgar said:
ya that is rough man...
it is just weird thats all..I am no stranger to breakups...but normally the girls are much more coniving and secretive than this one is.


Brutal honesty is much better, since it saves the trouble of being suspicious with what you know is a half truth, or no truth.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
Brutal honesty is much better, since it saves the trouble of being suspicious with what you know is a half truth, or no truth.
I completely agree. Compared to the other shit Ive been through with scandalous chicks in the past..i much prefer this one.
I think damage control here will be minimal
 
Bleh....don't be her in between while she looks for something else. Props to her for being honest but I have NEVER understood people who stay in something they know is over. The minute I knew things were not going to go anywhere between me and someone I was seeing, I bailed. I don't have the time to waste to let something die slowly.
 
Wulfgar said:
I completely agree. Compared to the other shit Ive been through with scandalous chicks in the past..i much prefer this one.
I think damage control here will be minimal
Nothing a weekend in Vegas couldn't cure. ;)

Seriously though sorry it sucks getting the boot. I think it is lame that she wants to stay with you tell some more into her comes along fear of being alone with out a doubt. I say fuck going to the play just dump her ass. Go out with some friends to the strippers get a couple of lap dances and live it up. :)
 
SublimeZM said:
at least she saved you the period of a couple of months where she would be looking, youd suspect it, but never have any proof and just feel like shit untill she was already moving in with guy #2


Excuse me sir, but this thread is reserved for those who've actually had sex. I'm going to have to ask you to leave quietly.
 
I am amazed @ how fast everyone responded to this..doesnt anyone have BBq's or soemthing to go to on a Sunday afternoon/evening?
 
Wulfgar said:
I am amazed @ how fast everyone responded to this..doesnt anyone have BBq's or soemthing to go to on a Sunday afternoon/evening?


lol....I'm holed up reading harry potter :nerd:
 
by the way I am def going to the play...tickets cost me like 200$ 3 months ago....should be a good play...:)
maybe Ill pretend im going to the baathroom if it sucks and just leve her there
 
Wulfgar said:
by the way I am def going to the play...tickets cost me like 200$ 3 months ago....should be a good play...:)
maybe Ill pretend im going to the baathroom if it sucks and just leve her there
:lmao:

I am dieting no BBQ's here :)
 
first, i just want to say that this is a blessing in disguise. sure, youre an emotionally cripple unable to let anyone truly get close to you, but SHE is a washed up, over the hill cougar scrag. you MIGHT change emotionally, but her ass aint ever gettin any younger

second, i see some serious power fucking in your future, so this is what you do:

you get new satin sheets, cause they slide all over the place. Then, you get her as HORNY as you can, so that shes completely tranced out and just wanting you to smash her box - but before you do, make sure her head is exactly 4 inches from the headboard...then as her passion grows and you start slamming her and shes in the throes of ecstasy where her eyes are all rolling back and that...cleverly make sure her head starts to nudge/bump the head board with each thrust...then hit the headboard hard...and harder...and harder, until her head is smashing into the headboard with the power of a herd of stampeding elephants, hard enough to scramble her brains, but not quite enough for her to want to get off your dick to reposition - and if she DOES reposition, grab her hands and make out like youre being passionate and want to hold them, and just keep beating her stoopid head into the wall for at least 30 minutes

if shes not gonna have you, youre gonna give her some migraines to remember you by

fuckin hi 5, o yea, powersluts represent! ;)
 
Wulfgar said:
Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"

Drop her and never look back.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
first, i just want to say that this is a blessing in disguise. sure, youre an emotionally cripple unable to let anyone truly get close to you, but SHE is a washed up, over the hill cougar scrag. you MIGHT change emotionally, but her ass aint ever gettin any younger

second, i see some serious power fucking in your future, so this is what you do:

you get new satin sheets, cause they slide all over the place. Then, you get her as HORNY as you can, so that shes completely tranced out and just wanting you to smash her box - but before you do, make sure her head is exactly 4 inches from the headboard...then as her passion grows and you start slamming her and shes in the throes of ecstasy where her eyes are all rolling back and that...cleverly make sure her head starts to nudge/bump the head board with each thrust...then hit the headboard hard...and harder...and harder, until her head is smashing into the headboard with the power of a herd of stampeding elephants, hard enough to scramble her brains, but not quite enough for her to want to get off your dick to reposition - and if she DOES reposition, grab her hands and make out like youre being passionate and want to hold them, and just keep beating her stoopid head into the wall for at least 30 minutes

if shes not gonna have you, youre gonna give her some migraines to remember you by

fuckin hi 5, o yea, powersluts represent! ;)



+1
 
Wulfgar said:
Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"
I've never heard of telling someone that they want them to stick around until they find anyone else. Plenty of people do that but not many will come right out and tell you.

I think she is trying to get you to change and not truly trying to make a break with you.
 
ok there's some serious issues right here......... :worried:


GoldenDelicious said:
first, i just want to say that this is a blessing in disguise. sure, youre an emotionally cripple unable to let anyone truly get close to you, but SHE is a washed up, over the hill cougar scrag. you MIGHT change emotionally, but her ass aint ever gettin any younger

second, i see some serious power fucking in your future, so this is what you do:

you get new satin sheets, cause they slide all over the place. Then, you get her as HORNY as you can, so that shes completely tranced out and just wanting you to smash her box - but before you do, make sure her head is exactly 4 inches from the headboard...then as her passion grows and you start slamming her and shes in the throes of ecstasy where her eyes are all rolling back and that...cleverly make sure her head starts to nudge/bump the head board with each thrust...then hit the headboard hard...and harder...and harder, until her head is smashing into the headboard with the power of a herd of stampeding elephants, hard enough to scramble her brains, but not quite enough for her to want to get off your dick to reposition - and if she DOES reposition, grab her hands and make out like youre being passionate and want to hold them, and just keep beating her stoopid head into the wall for at least 30 minutes

if shes not gonna have you, youre gonna give her some migraines to remember you by

fuckin hi 5, o yea, powersluts represent! ;)
 
wulf.........the issue is simple..........if you just want casual sex with her, this is fine.........you know that at some point she's gonna bail because she found someone else, she was upfront about that. If you cared about her though in any shape or form, you gotta quit it yourself.............because then the slow dying out is going to fuck with you. So if you just want a fuckbuddy in your life........than this is fine, and I actually give her alot of credit for being straight up.
 
Wulfgar said:
Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"

Tell her to go fuck herself. Cunt.
 
WTF?

I would have kicked her ass to the curb right that second.

Honesty?

She can take her honesty and shove it where her happy pills ought to be going.

This girl is pathetic and clearly can't be alone long enough to even start trying to get over her "issues".

This let me stay with you with after I have already told you that you are not good for me because I'm too daddy damaged to function by myself and I don't know how long it will be until I find a new guy to blame my mental state on - is total bullshit.

JMJ - It's no wonder men think all women are f**king bonkers.
:rolleyes:

You should get her a sympathy card with a number for a good psychiatrist in it - preferably not near your home or place of work.
 
Wulfgar said:
I really am still kind of in shock..she seemed so sincere and matter of fact about it that I was kind of blown away
I guess she needs props for the straight up brutal honesty.

I told her I needed to think about it before I got back to her. we are going to a play tonight but I think afterwards I may just tell her I need to call it quits.


Did not read the entire thread, but what's wrong to just being fuck buddies while you and her are looking for other ppl?

Been there done that, and it really works!! Not every relationship need to be balls to the walls type and some flexibility can't be a part of life. I know it might be something that you might not be into but try it bro, you might not get hurt breaking up with chicks if you think like that.
I think she is there thinking as I do and you are totally on a different page.
 
You can't go from being bf/gf to fuck buddies it don't happen to work that way. Been there done that.
 
velvett said:
WTF?

I would have kicked her ass to the curb right that second.

Honesty?

She can take her honesty and shove it where her happy pills ought to be going.

This girl is pathetic and clearly can't be alone long enough to even start trying to get over her "issues".

This let me stay with you with after I have already told you that you are not good for me because I'm too daddy damaged to function by myself and I don't know how long it will be until I find a new guy to blame my mental state on - is total bullshit.

JMJ - It's no wonder men think all women are f**king bonkers.
:rolleyes:

You should get her a sympathy card with a number for a good psychiatrist in it - preferably not near your home or place of work.



lol best response yet!
 
Well, I do
I've known this girl for years, maybe 6-7 now and we hook up from time to time. We use to be gf/bf about 6 years ago. I really don't get involved in her business and neither is her in mine. We are best friends with benefits I guess.
 
this is an interesting convo... so far I like GD's advice about the headboard/migraine idea the most, alot of the fems responses come in a close second, samurai is on point too..
 
Lube it up and fuck her in the ass (if you haven't done so yet). Give her a going away present, something to remember you by.
 
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velvett said:
WTF?

I would have kicked her ass to the curb right that second.

Honesty?

She can take her honesty and shove it where her happy pills ought to be going.

This girl is pathetic and clearly can't be alone long enough to even start trying to get over her "issues".

This let me stay with you with after I have already told you that you are not good for me because I'm too daddy damaged to function by myself and I don't know how long it will be until I find a new guy to blame my mental state on - is total bullshit.

JMJ - It's no wonder men think all women are f**king bonkers.
:rolleyes:

You should get her a sympathy card with a number for a good psychiatrist in it - preferably not near your home or place of work.
i figure she realizes that she cant trap him as a long term partner and is just managing risk. Wulfgar = uncontrollable by her feeble womanly ploys. Wulfy....another hi 55555555555 wooooooo!!!!!

really its quite clever, kudos to her. If i didnt have the social value to hold onto my girl, Id make plans to move onto a girl I could keep too.

Wulfgar: make sure there are no painkillers in the house on the night you use her cranium as a basketball, or youve wasted all that work. of course, you need the cardio ;)
 
heres what i think

either she is to scared to be alone

She wants u to break up with her so it takes the pressure off

or what heather said she wants u to change

but think about it do u really want to be with a girl thats going to be looking around at other men and basically cheating on u? Ya u could problemly keep her as a fuck buddy but u dont need to date.
 
Nice of you to let her walk all over you....dump her ass now.....Don't let her walk all over you until she finds someone else...are you freaking nuts...
 
It’s nice that she was honest with you, but the whole proposition she made is completely disrespectful to you, big time. You need to dump her now, end it immediately. One of two things will happen:

1. she will be forced to realize life without you, and find that she misses you and come crawling back because she had it so good and the grass isn’t greener

2. she was serious about leaving you and the relationship ends for good

Either way, by you ending it right now you regain some respect in her eyes by not letting her walk all over you and use you as an emotional safety net. Right now you are just a doormat to her, and women just don’t respect doormats.

Stand up for yourself, Wulfgar. Do it Now.
 
Wulfgar said:
she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

wow just fucking wow..... pathetic. Stop that shit now !
 
dump her now. . .delete her from your cell phone, delete her from your e-mail address book, delete her from your life. . .if the relationship is unhealthy, kill it. . .
 
GoldenDelicious said:
first, i just want to say that this is a blessing in disguise. sure, youre an emotionally cripple unable to let anyone truly get close to you, but SHE is a washed up, over the hill cougar scrag. you MIGHT change emotionally, but her ass aint ever gettin any younger

second, i see some serious power fucking in your future, so this is what you do:

you get new satin sheets, cause they slide all over the place. Then, you get her as HORNY as you can, so that shes completely tranced out and just wanting you to smash her box - but before you do, make sure her head is exactly 4 inches from the headboard...then as her passion grows and you start slamming her and shes in the throes of ecstasy where her eyes are all rolling back and that...cleverly make sure her head starts to nudge/bump the head board with each thrust...then hit the headboard hard...and harder...and harder, until her head is smashing into the headboard with the power of a herd of stampeding elephants, hard enough to scramble her brains, but not quite enough for her to want to get off your dick to reposition - and if she DOES reposition, grab her hands and make out like youre being passionate and want to hold them, and just keep beating her stoopid head into the wall for at least 30 minutes

if shes not gonna have you, youre gonna give her some migraines to remember you by

fuckin hi 5, o yea, powersluts represent! ;)
interesting physics problem
 
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