getting married in 2011? maybe?

[musclemom]

Frankly, I don't think anyone, male or female, should get married before 26/27-ish. Not like a century or two ago when you were old by 45. Women are waiting longer to have kids, people are having smaller families, it's just not logical to rush into the binding commitment of a marriage.

And if the idea of marrying someone sends you into a panic then something's not right. The idea of that person not sharing your life should be what scares you the most, not them being there.

 

[ceo]

wish someone would have told me.

They probably tried and you didn't listen...or they knew you wouldn't listen and didn't bother trying.

 

[RottenWillow]

You don't understand...wiminz stop WANTING to have sex after marriage....It seems crazy but it is true...

You don't understand....some wiminz stop wanting to have sex. And some men stop wanting to have sex.

Other married people continue to have plenty.

 

[ceo]

ebony, he's cheating on you.

 

[IrightI]

Frankly, I don't think anyone, male or female, should get married before 26/27-ish. Not like a century or two ago when you were old by 45. Women are waiting longer to have kids, people are having smaller families, it's just not logical to rush into the binding commitment of a marriage.

And if the idea of marrying someone sends you into a panic then something's not right. The idea of that person not sharing your life should be what scares you the most, not them being there.

I had thought to myself the MM has good insight on alot of these type things. You didn't dissapoint.

I would like to add, when you decide to get married, try and marry your best freind. That way, when the shit gets deep (and it will), you will still have your best friend after all is said and done. A true friendship is the best foundation for a lifetime of love.

 

[nangiggles]

WTF about moine NG! At 51, I've had more years here and the experience that goes woth it I FEEL like my oppinions are sound. I've lived with different women for multiple years froma young age, 22, to my last one. We have a 13 year old, lived together for 9 years and have been married for 3. I didn't even consider marriage till I was 37, for various reasons.

For the record, SD is right. Talking about the husband being a real shit behind closed doors, it reminded me of a line I put in my sig of my real SN, "No matter how pretty she is, somebody, somewhere is sick of her CRAP!" lmao

TxB

What are you talking about? This was your advice:

that's TOO damn young!add 10 more years atleast. Eb's go have somw fun, see things and meet people. BE young, believe me, it' doesn't last long. Wait till you are ready, when THAT time comes, you'll know it and there will be very few if any doubts...

youre advice was dont do it you're too young go out, have fun and meet people... you're a good bro and I like you but to me that isnt great advice.... age is a number and doesnt always determine if/when you may or may not be ready for things.... also being married does not limit having fun and seeing things....

 

[IrightI]

You don't understand....some wiminz stop wanting to have sex. And some men stop wanting to have sex.

not NEARLY in the same porportion, MUCH more wimmen seem to find sex a chore and not a necessary part of life/marriage. Some men, yes.... but not many.

Other married people continue to have plenty.

Usually, I have noticed that these couples have a great friendship (see above post ) and also the woman feels that she needs to be submissive to some degree to the husband. I had one tell me once on this topic, she felt that her body became sort of his too and vice versa. By that logic, when he wanted sex, she never said no. I like that woman....

 

[cindylou]

They probably tried and you didn't listen...or they knew you wouldn't listen and didn't bother trying.

Probably

 

[IrightI]

What are you talking about? This was your advice:



youre advice was dont do it you're too young go out, have fun and meet people... you're a good bro and I like you but to me that isnt great advice.... age is a number and doesnt always determine if/when you may or may not be ready for things.... also being married does not limit having fun and seeing things....

the first part was just me BS'ning with SD, the advuice was posted before that. sorry you missed it.

your correct in the age thing, but she also wrote that she was "scared" (I don't have the text in front of me) everytything that she wrote lended it's self to the fact that she was unsure, etc. If that the case, she needs to wait. I said an arbitrary 10 years, could be more-could be less, but never-the-less imo she needs to wait.

Being married does not limit having fun and seeing things? really You MUST make a really decent amount of money and/or we're not on the same plane of what "fun" or "seeing things" is. Also, another crux of her post was "family", we would HAVE to agree that having kids changes evertything. Money, time, none of it comes easy anymore.

 

[ricco561]

anyone want to marry me?