getting married in 2011? maybe?

[OMEGA]

Jave maybe you can use the "concubine" loophole

 

[digimon7068]

Don't forget to say goodbye to regular sex...

that's not even remotely true...actually...now that i think about it...there's nothing regular about my sex life

 

[*ebony*]

me either...I can't figure how this happens and is perpetuated




oh and Congrats Ebony!!!
uhhh...assuming you said yes already that is...

no i didn't. I guess that yes is postponed for a bit.

 

[trex74]

Its what i want; marriage and family. Fantasized about it since forever. So why then am I panicking, feeling suffocated when stuff gets real? and to a guy perfect for me?

You never said how much you love him *ebony*...Do you love him?
Just because someone is "perfect" for you doesn't mean squat.
You don't sound ready IMO.
Don't rush into things before you are sure you can spend the rest of your life with this guy no matter what happens to the both of you. Can you imagine marrying this guy "for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health"? How loyal are you to him in particular, not just the idea of marriage?

 

[cindylou]

Its what i want; marriage and family. Fantasized about it since forever. So why then am I panicking, feeling suffocated when stuff gets real? and to a guy perfect for me?

Did you say yes and now you're feeling panicked or did you say no?

 

[ricco561]

You don't understand...wiminz stop WANTING to have sex after marriage....It seems crazy but it is true...

When she says "I do", she really means "I won't".

 

[ricco561]

Its what i want; marriage and family. Fantasized about it since forever. So why then am I panicking, feeling suffocated when stuff gets real? and to a guy perfect for me?

You're cheating on me?

 

[-SD-]

Big difference between a great match on paper and a match of personalities and love.

Fucking shoot me for saying something so oprah-ish

 

[KillahBee]

if you didn't fear it, you wouldn't be human (or you'd lack any normal reactions). it's normal and it's healthy. at least if it's a manageable level.

 

[IrightI]

Its what i want; marriage and family. Fantasized about it since forever. So why then am I panicking, feeling suffocated when stuff gets real? and to a guy perfect for me?

maybe it's because:
1) its the hardest thing that you will ever do. EVER
2) people change and he may not change for the better ( in YOUR eyes)
3) if you mean what you say with the vows, it's damn hard to get out of barring abuse/infedelity
4) a fantasy NEVER measures up to a reality
5) kids are the single most lifechanging event in ones life and with that the trememdous responsibility

other than that, IDK.