getting married in 2011? maybe?

[-SD-]

only the wife can see it?

You say all the good ones are taken, but what you see is just the veneer or possibly the "front" that couples put on to make it look like everythings great. But behind closed doors it could be complete shit. So to the wife who has that shitty husband, he is "taken", but other women think think hes "a good one thats taken", when in reality hes a shit husband.

 

[cindylou]

You say all the good ones are taken, but what you see is just the veneer or possibly the "front" that couples put on to make it look like everythings great. But behind closed doors it could be complete shit. So to the wife who has that shitty husband, he is "taken", but other women think think hes "a good one thats taken", when in reality hes a shit husband.

aahhhhhh I see..I agree

 

[nangiggles]

SD is very wise, has been spot on the whole thread... how are you not taken bro?

 

[cindylou]

lol

 

[javaguru]

SD is very wise, has been spot on the whole thread... how are you not taken bro?

The jacket won't allow it....

 

[EnderJE]

The jacket won't allow it....

Or his brain?

 

[Oceano]

Its what i want; marriage and family

You don't need to get married to be with just one person for the rest of your entire life and live with them forever and share every last thing you have with them until you die. You can do all that without getting married. Marriage just makes you feel more obligated to do it because you signed that contract etc.

Good luck with whatever you decide, I'm sure it's just normal pre-marital nerves.

 

[-SD-]

SD is very wise, has been spot on the whole thread... how are you not taken bro?

When i was younger i refused to get married because i always told myself i would need the freedom to go back to college. every guy i knew who got married wasnt able to go back to college because of the inevitable limitations a wife and possibly kids/bills puts on ones ability to successfully do that sort of thing. That was my 20's. Now that im through with all that what i see are all the problems men have in marriages, the divorce horror stories, and alienation from their kids. Ive never felt the need to get married for marriage sake and and am happy with girlfriends or even living with a GF. Who knows that might all change but thats what lifes all about, understanding that a long held view could change over time and not stubbornly holding onto it because thats how its always been.

 

[cindylou]

anyone want to marry me?

 

[IrightI]

anyone want to marry me?

OK guys, not everybody at once! I guess there was SO many responses it jammed the server. lol