Feeling pathetic

[Anabolic-B]

3 I can really depend on

Mostly my own fault ... get invited to dew stuff with really decent people fairly often, butt usually decline

guess I'm just a loner

Relying on hydros isn't the key they make me anti-social after a while and maybe you should put more effort towards spending time with at least the people you feel are genuine and could impact your life one way or another, not everyone. I'm a loner too, but I'm starting to realize I've passed up lots of good things being that way, especially possible significant others that would have been good for me.

 

[nangiggles]

Nan, you are really busy don't feel pathetic or be too hard on yourself

As we get older friends get put on the backburner and it's easy to wind up like that. I am the same way, I let myself get like that all the time even my RL friends I text way too much...someone takes up all my time!

Anyway, don't feel bad it happens to a lot of us so if you want more friends then just make that a priority. In six months you'll have a ton of people that can hug/hold you xx

Well I had legit friends in CR including 2 close friends I've known for 17 and for 13 years, they are always there for me to chat/skype since I moved. But havent really made many here in the US, there are a couple but they are friends with both myself and my husband.

 

[nangiggles]

this wouldn't even be an issue if your husband wasn't a douche

Well him being a dipshit and me planning my exodus is what made me look around and realize I don't have a strong support system.

I don't have any friends. Man the fuck up. Hugs & crying is for queers.

 

[nangiggles]

Nan, you deserve better..you're a good bro

Thanks Woot

 

[cindylou]

Well him being a dipshit and me planning my exodus is what made me look around and realize I don't have a strong support system.

I found support where I needed it. You'll find it xx

 

[cindylou]

Why 6 months?

lol just seemed like a good time frame to look back

 

[sexyMFer]

You'll be good. You'll learn to make friends.

Making new friends will be a lot more fun than staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy.

 

[caligirl85]

I can probably count my close friends on one hand and most of them don't live in the same city either. I'm kind of in a similar place, Nan. I was always so busy before and didn't put the time in to my social life. Try to keep yourself open to it. You never know where you'll meet someone and connect. I've forced myself to go out when I get invited. Some people, I was surprised that it was fun and there's a couple, I'll probably not go out with again.

For whatever it's worth, I'm always here if you need to chat.

 

[digimon7068]

I don't have any friends. Man the fuck up. Hugs & crying is for queers.

bwahahahahahaha

 

[digimon7068]

you're married, right? why the heck aren't you hanging out with the hubster?