F-ing WOMEN!!! SHOW SOME GOD DAMN RESPECT, LADIES!!!!

[madbomber31]

hey bm... ask circus girl where that class was and enroll in it... get a spine and say no.

 

[chesty]

Woman can be ruly brutal and evil and know just how to stick in the knife and twist round and round. Of course so do men. We are just to thick headed to get a hint. Of course I do like the approach, of say what you mean and mean what you say.

But there is always the chase. When the Panther gets the scent of feramones the hunt is on! And then the body language is another clue.

I could be all wrong, but just the other day I was talking to a single mom at my kids school (who is also going to be my realtor) And as we were talking she said something (don't remember) and reached out and touched my hand. Now here is where the hunt comes into being. Is just a casual touch, is she just naturally energetic and a people person or is this one of those female subtle hints? Don't know, but the unknown and the chase is always more fun than the kill (well, almost always)

Bmom, you can be brutal with me any time. I like a ass whooping now and then

 

[madbomber31]

chesty, the hunt is fine and dandy... but when i go in for the kill dont run off and stand 10 feet away so i can easily come back and try again... if you are really wanting to get away from the kill, run your ass off!!!

 

[Q Modo]

Shit like this happens because many folks (men and women) lack assertiveness. Assertiveness is saying "no" when you mean no.

"no, I don't want to go on a date, there are cute chicks over there, try them".

"no, you can't borrow my chainsaw, coz you broke my lawnmower the last time you got it".

"no, I don't want another beer, I am driving home".

If you have to keep saying "No" it doesn`t sound like it works that well.

I have done an assertivenss course which teaches you to keep saying no until the person gets it. Westerners are taught that saying "no" is rude and you should always accede to a request. Therefore, they will make an excuse rather than say "no".

Assertive, by atleast some recognized definitions, is not a good thing. To be assertive is often defined as "Too confident and foward.". Such as someone always insisting on their own rights and opinions. That is a bad thing.
Assertive can also be defined as "Confident and foward.". Such as someone who is unafraid to voice his rights or opinions. I`m sure you can see the difference.
Assuming you want the latter, does being assertive mean it`s okay to disregard other people's view? Certainly isn`t your job to try and protect anyone`s feelings, but just because you do does not mean you`re not assertive.

Many guys are this bad too - "I'll call you tomorrow" - yeah, right! Basically, people are spineless and many of them suck.

That`s not always the same thing. Could be because he doesn`t want to bother(read: Not worth the time). How this could be confused with someone making up an excuse in an attempt to let you down easy(weither in vain or not) is beyond me. Don`t blend action and reason. Too many people do this. They are not the same thing.
Trying to let someone down easy is not spineless. My spine might be a little out of wack, but I assure you, it`s there.




MD:
For real bro, Here`s some truth. Forgive me if it`s too polite, but I`m not angry with you.
What do you expect from your relationships? "I have a boyfriend" should ring clear as a bell. What do you expect other than to get screwed over if the kind of person you`re trying to get with doesn`t give a damn that she`s already seeing someone? If these are the women you go after, you`d have to be pretty dumb to be suprised when they screw you over. Sometimes it can be hard to judge if someone isn`t interested from an off key response, but that isn`t one of them... And guess what. It might actually be true. If you aren`t sure she`s not interested, then, by all means, keep talking. You keep saying you want her to break it to you straight, maybe she will.
If you`re so tough, how can it bother you that someone tries to protect your ego? Actually, I guess that`s the answer. You`re saying you want women to treat you like an untouchable god who is so far superior that you cannot be harmed. Your actions are making it quite clear you are not. If it truely didn`t bother you, you wouldn`t complain about it regardless of what she said. Saying she is the one acting like she has a superiority complex is hypocritcal.

There are most definetly bitches. I`ve had trouble with some myself... Well they caused trouble for me. But to say all women are bitches is a far cry from the truth...

I dunno dude, maybe I got it all wrong, but I don`t see the problem with being nice. It generally costs you nothing and seems to make life more enjoyable.

 

[chesty]

That is damned straight. If you put up for the chase and then run like hell at the killing time, keep running and don't expect the chase to continue. The panther needs some lovin' at that point and nothing but a fresh kill will do.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If you have to keep saying "No" it doesn`t sound like it works that well.



Assertive, by atleast some recognized definitions, is not a good thing. To be assertive is often defined as "Too confident and foward.". Such as someone always insisting on their own rights and opinions. That is a bad thing.
Assertive can also be defined as "Confident and foward.". Such as someone who is unafraid to voice his rights or opinions. I`m sure you can see the difference.
Assuming you want the latter, does being assertive mean it`s okay to disregard other people's view? Certainly isn`t your job to try and protect anyone`s feelings, but just because you do does not mean you`re not assertive.



That`s not always the same thing. Could be because he doesn`t want to bother(read: Not worth the time). How this could be confused with someone making up an excuse in an attempt to let you down easy(weither in vain or not) is beyond me. Don`t blend action and reason. Too many people do this. They are not the same thing.
Trying to let someone down easy is not spineless. My spine might be a little out of wack, but I assure you, it`s there.




MD:
For real bro, Here`s some truth. Forgive me if it`s too polite, but I`m not angry with you.
What do you expect from your relationships? "I have a boyfriend" should ring clear as a bell. What do you expect other than to get screwed over if the kind of person you`re trying to get with doesn`t give a damn that she`s already seeing someone? If these are the women you go after, you`d have to be pretty dumb to be suprised when they screw you over. Sometimes it can be hard to judge if someone isn`t interested from an off key response, but that isn`t one of them... And guess what. It might actually be true. If you aren`t sure she`s not interested, then, by all means, keep talking. You keep saying you want her to break it to you straight, maybe she will.
If you`re so tough, how can it bother you that someone tries to protect your ego? Actually, I guess that`s the answer. You`re saying you want women to treat you like an untouchable god who is so far superior that you cannot be harmed. Your actions are making it quite clear you are not. If it truely didn`t bother you, you wouldn`t complain about it regardless of what she said. Saying she is the one acting like she has a superiority complex is hypocritcal.

There are most definetly bitches. I`ve had trouble with some myself... Well they caused trouble for me. But to say all women are bitches is a far cry from the truth...

I dunno dude, maybe I got it all wrong, but I don`t see the problem with being nice. It generally costs you nothing and seems to make life more enjoyable.

DAMN! And ya'll were saying that I write long posts?!

I dunno MB.... this guy kinda seemed to make sense.

Imagine that... a MAN who MAKES SENSE!! WHODATHUNKIT!



QModo.... are you SURE you are NOT A GIRL?!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Chesty, you know that with you, brutality is my speciality!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

women love to torture guys. they are penis envy. it gives them a sense of control. they are bigger control freaks than guys. they go home at night and they think to themselves, haha, i am really fucking up that guys mind, now i can go to sleep.

 

[chesty]

Spank me baby!

Some guys can be long winded, and rant just like a woman! Oh well we have our moments.

 

[madbomber31]

i wonder if they really say it or not.... i wonder. whores??? do you say it? or is it natural? whores? answer me whores!!!!