Depressed as fuck. Damn women.

[JohnyJuice]

To make a long story short, my girl broke up with me after we were together for soem time (about a year). We got along great, and always had a good time when we were together. She said that she felt scared because our relationship was so serious, and other bullshit reasons like that. But whatever, that s not the point. I am bummed as shit and cant get this girl out of my mind. It seems like everytime i give a shit about a woman, she goes and shows me why i shouldnt give a fuck. I need to get out of this rut man. i have been a sulking mofo for a week now.

 

[2Thick]

I hear you. It is tough and will take time to get over. The best advice I can give is to stay friendly but do not give her more than that. Do not call and do not see her. She will come back in a few weeks, no doubt.

 

[JohnyJuice]

the not seeing her is gonna be tough, i was planning on going up there in 3 weeks for my birthday. She wants me to come up and take me out and shit. And about the talking to her, she calls almost everyday. Maybe she wants the best of both worlds. It is hard not to talk to her though for many reasons. #1 i want to talk to her, i still feel for her. #2 we didnt get into a fight and break up or anything. So i am not mad, just broken hearted.
I guess i will just start missing some of her calls?

 

[spongebob]

the only advice i can give is the advice you probably dont want to hear right now. find a new girlfriend, there are plenty of girls out there.

 

[JohnyJuice]

the only advice i can give is the advice you probably dont want to hear right now. find a new girlfriend, there are plenty of girls out there.

i know man. i hear you. Its hard though, as i am sure you know. Its even harded to find a new chjick when your attitude sucks, and you only think about your ex.

 

[2Thick]

the not seeing her is gonna be tough, i was planning on going up there in 3 weeks for my birthday. She wants me to come up and take me out and shit. And about the talking to her, she calls almost everyday. Maybe she wants the best of both worlds. It is hard not to talk to her though for many reasons. #1 i want to talk to her, i still feel for her. #2 we didnt get into a fight and break up or anything. So i am not mad, just broken hearted.
I guess i will just start missing some of her calls?

You hit it on the nose. She wants both. Do not give it to her and she will be forced to choose. Either way you are better off emotionally.

There is nothing to talk to her about. Either it will look like you are begging or you are willing to be her little dog.

If you really want her back, then leave her alone (but always stay friendly). If you just want some ass then go back but be forewarned, you will end up very hurt and in a place where she controls the relationship

 

[spongebob]

i know man. i hear you. Its hard though, as i am sure you know. Its even harded to find a new chjick when your attitude sucks, and you only think about your ex.

i think we all understand where your coming from. but ive had a whole new outlook on life this past year. i simply dont let things get me down. if something happens that would have normally depressed me, i just accept it and move on. too much fun to have to be depressed. good luck and keep your attitude right and someone else will come along. try to spend more time with friends and family(people who care) until then.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Lay some pipe bro.

 

[JohnyJuice]

You hit it on the nose. She wants both. Do not give it to her and she will be forced to choose. Either way you are better off emotionally.

There is nothing to talk to her about. Either it will look like you are begging or you are willing to be her little dog.

If you really want her back, then leave her alone (but always stay friendly). If you just want some ass then go back but be forewarned, you will end up very hurt and in a place where she controls the relationship

I was planning to go to Gainesviulle and hang for the weekend for my birthday. I am still gonna go. I guess i will just play it cool when i am with her. I will also try and limit the time i am with her by goiing out with my boys. Dont want her to think i came up for her, right?

 

[2Thick]

Dont want her to think i came up for her, right?

Exactly, but it will be tough once you hear her voice or see her. We are only human.