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bitch in work won't talk to me

stilleto

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you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)
 
Keep telling her you are too busy and will get with her soon to help.
 
People who have issues and are difficult to work with -- have insecurity and god knows what else issues inside of them.

Since you're not a shrink, and they're not your responsibility - DEVALUE them.

Don't hang around them. Don't laugh with them. They are NOTHING to you. You won't let them contiminate you with their dogshit. Eventually they'll get the message.

And when you have to work with her - be professional and to the point. Then go back to ignoring her.

That's the only way these people learn. Catering to them, trying to 'help' or 'understand' them only hurts you eventually, and validates their behavior so they continue on with it.

Lots of people like that in the cubicle world. People who failed in their dreams, and now hate the world around them - cuz they got shafted in every department. But you're not their keeper. Theyre grown adults, responsible for their own decisions.

r
 
Razorguns said:
People who have issues and are difficult to work with -- have insecurity and god knows what else issues inside of them.

Since you're not a shrink, and they're not your responsibility - DEVALUE them.

Don't hang around them. Don't laugh with them. They are NOTHING to you. You won't let them contiminate you with their dogshit. Eventually they'll get the message.

And when you have to work with her - be professional and to the point. Then go back to ignoring her.

That's the only way these people learn. Catering to them, trying to 'help' or 'understand' them only hurts you eventually, and validates their behavior so they continue on with it.

Lots of people like that in the cubicle world. People who failed in their dreams, and now hate the world around them - cuz they got shafted in every department. But you're not their keeper. Theyre grown adults, responsible for their own decisions.

r

Not everyone can get paid in guitars!
 
stilleto said:
you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)
sounds like you two have alot in common.


try deoderant
 
stilleto said:
you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)
Be sitting at your desk butt naked when she walks in. Then say "do you mind. I'm busy".
 
silverstar1025 said:
Keep telling her you are too busy and will get with her soon to help.

:)
that's what i'm going to do.

Her coworker is also working on a project that she needs my help with. She came to me today, i was a huge help, and now she's busy working on it.

The other one had to leave early today, but i KNOW tomorrow morning she's going to have to start or not finish by the deadline.
I am going to avoid her as long as i can, then be sweet as pie but barely help. :)
 
needtogetaas said:
Be sitting at your desk butt naked when she walks in. Then say "do you mind. I'm busy".

yeah, no.

I hate complainers too- and she bitches about EVERYTHING.
we renovated our bathrooms in work. They are now really nice- everything is automated and there's a shower and changing room and they keep it stocked with everything we could need. She complained that it took too long. well wtf.
 
stilleto said:
:)
that's what i'm going to do.

Her coworker is also working on a project that she needs my help with. She came to me today, i was a huge help, and now she's busy working on it.

The other one had to leave early today, but i KNOW tomorrow morning she's going to have to start or not finish by the deadline.
I am going to avoid her as long as i can, then be sweet as pie but barely help. :)

Good idea! I wouldn't want to help someone like that.
 
stilleto said:
you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)

wow. Wouldn't wanna get you pissed off.
 
stilleto said:
you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)


hee heee

would take so advantage of that situation. :evil:
 
the_alcatraz said:
wow. Wouldn't wanna get you pissed off.

lol
well i'm not even mad at her. she's mad at me for some bullshit petty crap. so that's fine... lets see how that works for her when she has to butch up.
 
stilleto said:
lol
well i'm not even mad at her. she's mad at me for some bullshit petty crap. so that's fine... lets see how that works for her when she has to butch up.

she's mad because you have nice ta' ta's
 
Frisky said:
she's mad because you have nice ta' ta's

that's probably it.
her husband is leaving her because "he can't stand her personality anymore".
that's what she's telling people. i think it's the truth too.
 
stilleto said:
that's probably it.
her husband is leaving her because "he can't stand her personality anymore".
that's what she's telling people. i think it's the truth too.


I would so eat that up... and work on her until she couldn't take it anymore. lol
 
stilleto said:
that's probably it.
her husband is leaving her because "he can't stand her personality anymore".
that's what she's telling people. i think it's the truth too.
you corrected her spelling and she didnt take too kindly too it, right?
 
stilleto said:
yeah, but you're bitchier than me.
:)



and gawd i love you for it.

lol

yea, but i'd pop the chick some popcorn and bring her some water also... lol


All just to see her face...

love ya too chicka... :heart: :heart: :evil: :evil:
 
stilleto said:
that's probably it.
her husband is leaving her because "he can't stand her personality anymore".
that's what she's telling people. i think it's the truth too.

maybe she just needs a hug. . .from a big-breasted jap???
 
Someone avoiding Stiletto???
NO... Can't be!

LOL


stilleto said:
you can totally tell she was the type of kid who was mean to other girls. now she's 40 and getting divorced (big surprise).

so she won't talk to me, for no good reason other than she likes drama and to play the victim and to complain CONSTANTLY. i hate that.

but now, my boss gave her an assignment directly. She can't do it without my help, and she's going to HAVE to come to my office.

teehee. bitch. :)
 
habitualhealth said:
what WONT you eat?


thats a good question... i may have to get back to you on that one


lol
 
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