lol .. thanks for posting QT, good to have some female point of view here, lol. Well ... poantrex, I just asked my girl, and the girls she works with (she works with 6 hotties).
Anyways, obviously the general consensus, (which I expected), was that it really is an individual basis. They said, that there was tooooo many factors that influenced this. There was one girl there that said she loves tall guys. Well, I am thinking that she is saying this cause she dates a freakin OGRE. Anyways, i know him, and he is a big tall lanky black dood. Nice guy. But tall and skinny. Looks like he has elephantitus of the legs, lol.
Anywhoo, they brough up "how much money does he make?" and "what does he do". Keep in mind these girls at her work range in age from around 25-35 I am guessing. Anyways, that pissed me off, ... cause I hate gold digging bitches. Anyways, I said, who cares, dont be so low... and they jumped all over me! Fuck did I take a bashing on that one. Anyways, they went on to tell me .. how that says soooooooo much about a dood, and what he is like, by his job, and how much money he makes. They said that it says so much about his personality, and motivation, and goals etc. It kind of made sense to me.
Anyways, ... one thing was all consistant with them, which surprised me. They all liked the V- Taper on guys! They said they LOVE wide shoulders, and a nice V shape. Never thought that they would really give a shit about that. But they loved wide shoulders. They all said they liked muscles .. to a certain extent.
They said, that they really liked the lean but much more than average musclular look, but when i asked them if they liked Arnolds physique, they said .. FUCK NO, (which I know that none of them have seen it in his hay day, other than in the movies, lol). I said .. well you probably hate Ronnie Colemans physique then? They just stared at me like deer in the headlights! hahaha. No idea who he was. lol.
Anyways, I started to think about their V-taper comments poatrex, and started to realise .. that most tall doods, are thin endos. More average sized guys, and smaller guys ... genetically on average ... (the mesos, and endos), have a much more musclular and wider frame. If you are a tall mofo with a wide V-taper, than thats good, but as we all know, classic long ectos, do not have this. Sure they can build muscle, but cant change their frame much. Here is a brief description of an ecdo. They are usually the taller ones.
Ectomorph:
-short upper body
-long arms
-long legs
-long and narrow feet and hands
-very little fat storage
-narrowness in the chest and shoulders
with genarally long thin muscles.
Here is a mesomorph
Mesomorph:
-large chest
-long torso
-solid muscle structure
-great strength
and an endo, which is probably the worst.
Endomorph:
-soft musculature
-rounder face
-short neck
-wide hips
-heavy fat storage
Mesomorphic people tend to put muscle on the easist of all. Think of a well muscled jock type athletic physique. These seem to fit the description best of what these girls were describing to me. Not short, not tall, but average sized, and usually taller than most chicks (unless you live in amsterdam, lol). Like I said, the taller folks tend to be the skinnier ones, with less muscle, and its harder for them to keep it on, and they probably dont have the wide masculine shoulders (calssic v), of a meso for example.
Again, they said, there are sooooo many variables that influense this. But they mentioned a few things, like, athletic muscluar lean build. They all loved abs. They likes a nice smile, and succesfull. And they all said, he has to be "fun". lol. I almost laughed out loud at that one, they just sounded like they wanted play, hahaha.
Then I went on to ask about the hair issue. Would they rather hair, or muscles. And it was a total mixed response. Some liked bald doods (one dates a big bald bouncer - hes huge), some didnt. They all hated comb-overs, lol. But i couldnt get a definate answer from them on this. And to tell you the truth, by this time, i really just wanted to get the hell out of there, cause i just opened a huge can of worms. Then their questions started pouring in? Why are you asking this? Why do you care? What do you like in girls? blah blah blah .. lol.
So ya ... I think that there is no real one answer. Its all such a varied and personal taste. Also .. one thing that I have been thinking about lately .. is think how your taste in women changes over the years? When I was in my late teens, early 20s, ALL that I was attracted to, was the playboy type of girl. Long blond hair, great ass, awesome rack .. didnt care about anything else. Didnt even care what they were like personality wise. Just wanted them to be as hot as possible, and just wanted to bone them.
Its funny how things change when you get older, and you start to like chicks more on their personality. To me now, if I meet a chick who I am really into, and really like her, shes cool, and fun to hang with, I would much rather get with her, than a super hottie, that is boring to me. Even if its just for 1 night. You just know the sex will be more fun, with the fun chick. I find myself checking out chicks now, that normally I wouldnt even know if they walked into the same room. Like the nice wholesome, cute innocent type. Something about them .. how you just want to expose their dirty nasty side, hahaha.
So ya ... think how much girls opinions will change as well, over time. It really is age dependant, and personal preference dependant.
Mavy