Are you misunderstood?

[cindylou]

I am totally misunderstood irl everyone who meets me thinks i'm a stuck up bitch at first but I'm just aloof.

knowing me is loving me. lol. hahaha

I know true stuck up snobby bitches. I hate them and i'm not that.

 

[seaking420]

i hear ya....its those first impressions.....which are based on appearence. As you get older and wiser you learn not to judge a book by its cover and appreciate that everyone is different.

 

[-SD-]

drop the fucking attitude

 

[Raptorex]

in the end, you live with yourself - if you have created a false impression - you will feel empty since you know the truth.

 

[Bikini Mod]

in the end, you live with yourself - if you have created a false impression - you will feel empty since you know the truth.

werd

 

[myway]

in the end, you live with yourself - if you have created a false impression - you will feel empty since you know the truth.

Tru dat

 

[bigmann245]

in the end, you live with yourself - if you have created a false impression - you will feel empty since you know the truth.

absolutely... i hate people that put up a false front and then change after you get comfortable with them. especially when you start a relationship... my wife did that to me while we dated for 3 years before we got married. she even told the marriage counselor that she told me what she thought i wanted to hear and then after we got married her true self came out. lots of years of trouble because of it. if it were not for my son i would have left a long time ago but i stayed and we worked things out once she learned to be herself and i got used to it. but the lies is what really upset me.

basically if you lie about yourself to others it will come out eventually then your labeled a lier.

 

[Bikini Mod]

absolutely... i hate people that put up a false front and then change after you get comfortable with them. especially when you start a relationship... my wife did that to me while we dated for 3 years before we got married. she even told the marriage counselor that she told me what she thought i wanted to hear and then after we got married her true self came out. lots of years of trouble because of it. if it were not for my son i would have left a long time ago but i stayed and we worked things out once she learned to be herself and i got used to it. but the lies is what really upset me.

basically if you lie about yourself to others it will come out eventually then your labeled a lier.

Interesting, I've been chastized/questioned as to why I am so "in-your-face-take-me-or-leave-me-but-this-is-reality-regardless" with everyone I meet. They asked what could I hope to gain from such brutal honesty as it would most certainly turn a number of people off. The above reason is EXACTLY what I have avoided my entire life...

When I was younger, I had no backbone, so I tried so hard to mold to what I THOUGHT was expected of me - to please my partner. But that sorta backfired when nothing I did was good enough, I was always "in trouble" for something. Then when I said, "Fuck this" and started doing whatever I wanted as at least this way, I would be happy to a certain degree I was told that I had changed.

Huh?

Well I learned BIGTIME.

My husband knew the score before we ever went on a date... People still find my brutal honesty shocking. You would think they would find it refreshing.

 

[Stefka]

anyway, my friend in hs senior year said,
"everyones afraid to talk to you at first cause they think you are going to be a dick, then they hear you talk and realize your a nice guy...then they actually listen to you and think youre a dick again".

I am exactly the opposite.
I look really sweet and innocent so everyone thinks that I'm nice.
Then I start talking and, as I am an indefatigable smart ass, they think I am a bitch.
Then, if they actually listen to what I say (and if they're smart) they realize that 90% of what I say is said in jest, and they think I'm nice again.

But, as most people dont listen, I usually end up stuck in bitch zone.
And, as I think most people are stupid, I don't care.

 

[-SD-]

Interesting, I've been chastized/questioned as to why I am so "in-your-face-take-me-or-leave-me-but-this-is-reality-regardless" with everyone I meet. They asked what could I hope to gain from such brutal honesty as it would most certainly turn a number of people off. The above reason is EXACTLY what I have avoided my entire life...

When I was younger, I had no backbone, so I tried so hard to mold to what I THOUGHT was expected of me - to please my partner. But that sorta backfired when nothing I did was good enough, I was always "in trouble" for something. Then when I said, "Fuck this" and started doing whatever I wanted as at least this way, I would be happy to a certain degree I was told that I had changed.

Huh?

Well I learned BIGTIME.

My husband knew the score before we ever went on a date... People still find my brutal honesty shocking. You would think they would find it refreshing.

Men dont want fronts or fake pleasers, but men also dont want "in your face" type women.