Anybody with commitment issues here?

[nangiggles]

you did use it as an excuse, i doubt you were drugged for a make out session, its obvious you have a connection with this dude and are afraid of committing to him

Clearlyhe'sfriends with jigga,or maybe it is jigga!?!?!? :O

 

[jiggagold]

only in her wildest and wettest of dreams

 

[BBR100]

If I did that, I feel that I'd be setting myself up for failure. If I don't give too much of myself than I wouldn't lose anything (get hurt?)
makes sense?

that sounds like a fear of commitment to me.

 

[*ebony*]

i've been told that I do.

 

[lartinos]

that sounds like a fear of commitment to me.

And I think she would respond and say that would be her being cautious which I totally understand. I know some really nice and pretty girls that are mutual friends with myself and my GF I'd love to hook up with my friends, but I don't know ONE guy that is a slam dunk good guy that wouldn't fuck them over. (that is good looking) At the same time maybe she is going after the wrong kind of guy and maybe her "cautious" attitude turns away some great guys as well.

 

[crew9]

that sounds like a fear of commitment to me.

yup yup

 

[ceo]

The people that know me, know me.

You're a pretty deep bro.

 

[trex74]

Apparently I have commitment issues according to one of my friends, we recently reconnected. Btw, nothing happened we are just friends...

This is news to me, I had no idea. For example, we were talking about food and I said 'MAYBE I'll make it for you one day'. I don't like to make plans unless I know for sure..There is no such thing as a sure thing, right?! Right! He says that I use the word 'maybe' quiet often and that's usually a commitment phobia type of thing..i don't know wtf..

I don't think that I have commitment issues, I'm just cautious. I think I overdo it sometimes. Anyhow, I keep thinking about what he said and if there is any truth to that

Consider the source.
If guy just cheated on his gf all the time, and now they're not together, obviously he is the one with commitment issues- he's just projecting onto you to make himself feel better.

 

[Redrocker13]

Consider the source.
If guy just cheated on his gf all the time, and now they're not together, obviously he is the one with commitment issues- he's just projecting onto you to make himself feel better.

This sounds alot closer to the truth to me.

And besides Princesa, a certain amount of caution is wise. For reasons you know all too well I'd suspect. For your own edification, perhaps whatever relationships behind you that helped form the extra caution need to be re-examined. Perhaps there is still some unresolved/unhealed wounds there not allowing to move forward.

Loving someone is one thing. Trusting them is another.

 

[cindylou]

I do not have commitment issues