Anybody with commitment issues here?

[-SD-]

i just ignored it.

i assumed someone else drugged her and he raepd the benefits

*raped

 

[princesa]

Do you have serious trust issues with men? Have you ever been truly happy and secure in a relationship? How did that end?

Damn! We are reaching pretty deep here lol


I can't say that I have trust issues because I do give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But, once I catch someone in a lie it's over..I can't trust them, no matter who they are. I don't know, it could be my flaw.

As far as my past relationships...There is no point in going back and trying to examine/disect everything, pretty sure I've made plenty of mistakes. I think that I've grown a lot since and I'm pretty comfortable and secure in my own skin.

 

[AFeedz]

Damn! We are reaching pretty deep here lol


I can't say that I have trust issues because I do give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But, once I catch someone in a lie it's over..I can't trust them, no matter who they are. I don't know, it could be my flaw.

As far as my past relationships...There is no point in going back and trying to examine/disect everything, pretty sure I've made plenty of mistakes. I think that I've grown a lot since and I'm pretty comfortable and secure in my own skin.

Same, but I don't think that's a flaw. If someone betrays my trust, there's no reason to trust them and it's no one's fault but their own, not a flaw of mine.

 

[princesa]

Consider the source.
If guy just cheated on his gf all the time, and now they're not together, obviously he is the one with commitment issues- he's just projecting onto you to make himself feel better.

Good point.

 

[nimbus]

maybe his love was your drug

 

[Sub-Zero]

maybe he liked your beard

 

[jiggagold]

bearded clam

 

[lartinos]

Damn! We are reaching pretty deep here lol


I can't say that I have trust issues because I do give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But, once I catch someone in a lie it's over..I can't trust them, no matter who they are. I don't know, it could be my flaw.

As far as my past relationships...There is no point in going back and trying to examine/disect everything, pretty sure I've made plenty of mistakes. I think that I've grown a lot since and I'm pretty comfortable and secure in my own skin.

We could go deeper, what was your parents relationship like. Does it give you a certain view of how a relationship should or shouldn't be. In my case shouldn't be, I am glad to find someone who comes from a family that both parents have stayed together for 25 years though. For some reason it makes me feel like that is what she is used to and really wants.

 

[EarthRider]

IMHO, I think girls give it up too fast to too many guys. Then they figure all guys just want to get down there pants, and ditch them. But hey, guys are thinking, why buy the cow when I get the milk for free, hahahaha