You guys are ridiculous. It isn't an issue of division of labor. It is the feeling that some men have that you are their SERVANT. He comes across in his post as thinking that because she is a woman it is her duty to be his ass wiper.
The good old days. Factoid where I live in Beaufort county it's legal to take your wife to the courthouse steps and beat her on a Sunday. My friend looked it up for some reason.