Am I being an ass w/ my wife?

[canadianhitman]

the wife should do the dishes...end of story

Or take her ass out there and get a fulltime job, so they can afford to pay someone else to do them if it's that big a deal for her. One or the other.

 

[heatherrae]

I just know that if she is anything like me, the day that my man came home and threw a fit and told me to wash his dishes, etc. would be the last day I would do it for him.

I don't mind doing nice things, but don't come with an attitude.

That is as bad as when a woman comes and demands jewelry, a fancy car, etc.

It isn't your god given right to have us cater to your every whim or vice versa.

 

[Wulfgar]

Or take her ass out there and get a fulltime job, so they can afford to pay someone else to do them if it's that big a deal for her. One or the other.

agreed
i mearly meant if she refuses to contribute more economically she should contribute domestically

 

[canadianhitman]

I just know that if she is anything like me, the day that my man came home and threw a fit and told me to wash his dishes, etc. would be the last day I would do it for him.

I don't mind doing nice things, but don't come with an attitude.

That is as bad as when a woman comes and demands jewelry, a fancy car, etc.

It isn't your god given right to have us cater to your every whim or vice versa.

It's not 'catering to a whim'....it's doing the ONLY THING SHE HAS TO DO MOST DAYS SINCE SHE'S NOT OUT WORKING!!!

 

[bigmann245]

I just know that if she is anything like me, the day that my man came home and threw a fit and told me to wash his dishes, etc. would be the last day I would do it for him.

I don't mind doing nice things, but don't come with an attitude.

That is as bad as when a woman comes and demands jewelry, a fancy car, etc.

It isn't your god given right to have us cater to your every whim or vice versa.

even though my wife was not doing shit around the house i never talked bad to her. i kinda understood but she wouldnt get help and that bothered me. but i still just took care of the house and our son and hoped things would change. i still have no idea how i went 4 years without giving up.

 

[heatherrae]

It's not 'catering to a whim'....it's doing the ONLY THING SHE HAS TO DO MOST DAYS SINCE SHE'S NOT OUT WORKING!!!

How do you know what she does all day?

Just because she works part time doesn't give him the right to come home and yell at her and throw his shit all over the place like he lives in a barn. He could have some respect.

 

[canadianhitman]

How do you know what she does all day?

Just because she works part time doesn't give him the right to come home and yell at her and throw his shit all over the place like he lives in a barn. He could have some respect.

Ummm...his original post implies that she started the strife:

wife and I get into a blowout fight earlier. It started because she was bitching about the dishes I left in the sink.

And to put your speculation right back at ya, how do YOU know what she does all day? Unless it's something that equals fulltime work, she should just do the dishes instead of bitching about them being in the sink.

 

[heatherrae]

Damn, I am glad I dont have a man right now. It is like having another child. They want you to pick up their dirty socks and clean their nasty underwear.

bleh.

 

[Wulfgar]

Damn, I am glad I dont have a man right now. It is like having another child. They want you to pick up their dirty socks and clean their nasty underwear.

bleh.

luckily for my women..i dont wear either

 

[heatherrae]

luckily for my women..i dont wear either