Alright, one night stand says shes having my kid and is asking for money...

[jh1]

Not a victim, but a DECENT man owns up to his children.

True. But by her own statements paternity isn't known and can't (yet) be determined.

Everyone's definition of decency differs, but I'd think it's fair to say that if a woman finds herself in the position of not knowing who the father is / would be if she were to be pregnant - well that doesn't seem very 'DECENT' to me either.

 

[wootoom]

ouch, you got owned.

 

[jh1]

screw waiting until the kid is born.....get amniotic dna test

http://www.genetree.com/paternity/prenatalPaternityInfo.php

I don't think most docs will do that, because it's invasive, unless there is a medical reason - i.e. high risk of genetic defects or some crap like that. I could be wrong....

 

[puddlemonkey]

True. But by her own statements paternity isn't known and can't (yet) be determined.

Everyone's definition of decency differs, but I'd think it's fair to say that if a woman finds herself in the position of not knowing who the father is / would be if she were to be pregnant - well that doesn't seem very 'DECENT' to me either.

I'm gonna have to agree with skickboy here.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I would say that 99% of the people on here have had sex with more than one person in a month before.

NEVER! I'm appalled by that statement! I'm saving myself for Cindy

 

[heatherrae]

The girl already has a child, lives with her sister - and doesn't have the sense to use a condom. I don't care if you sleep five a different guys every month - there's no crime in loving sex and having it with different people but what should be held against her is having sex with multiple partners, without a condom and not willing to take full responsibility for her actions. You want the men to be resposible - so should the woman - and women moreso because ultimately it's the woman's body that will carry the child.

I'm surprise no one is focusing on the fact that she's sleeping with another woman's husband.

This girl in my eyes as several strikes against her already and now she'll raise not one but two children without a father figure.

Accidents only happen once.

Now her children will pay the price of her "misguidedness".

Both parties performed the exact same act, but the woman is the one labeled the "irresponsible whore."

If I were the guy, I would give the chick $280 to cover a bill. Jesus Christ, that is pocket change. If it turns out that she fooled him intentionally shame on her. I just think it is the decent thing to do.

 

[justchilling]

i guess it depends what kind of a guy you are, but i would not pay one red cent untill you know the kid is yours. i mean what the fuck. she dont even know you, and not sure if you are the father and wants money already. tell that bi!@# to get fucking bent.

 

[heatherrae]

LOL...if the father of my kid told me to "get fucking bent" he better not expect the paternity and child support case to be resolved cheaply.

 

[redsamurai]

Both parties performed the exact same act, but the woman is the one labeled the "irresponsible whore."

If I were the guy, I would give the chick $280 to cover a bill. Jesus Christ, that is pocket change. If it turns out that she fooled him intentionally shame on her. I just think it is the decent thing to do.

ok.....than what when she comes asking for a car payment, rent payment, hair and nails?? It'll happen, I've seen this hustle before heather......not saying for sure that this is what's going on. But think about this...........this was a "one night stand"..........now she's asking for bill payments??

I'm going to divulge something personal here, but I think it's appropriate. I'm adopted, and within the last 6 months I found both my birth parents and now I know what happened. She was 17 and so was my father...........she didnt' want her pregnancy with me to dictate his committment to her. She knew that he wasn't doing very well at the time but she also knew that he would bend over backward for her and marry her and all that. She didn't want that to be the reason he married her.............so she went off to another state and had me and put me immediately up for adoption. She never told my father about the pregnancy either...........which is kind of a source of contention between them, but hey....I think she made the right call. That's how you do it.........that's honorable, and that's where I get it from. And her and my father were in a "relationship"...ok? Not a one night stand.

 

[crazyjoe]

Both parties performed the exact same act, but the woman is the one labeled the "irresponsible whore."

If I were the guy, I would give the chick $280 to cover a bill. Jesus Christ, that is pocket change. If it turns out that she fooled him intentionally shame on her. I just think it is the decent thing to do.

If he was the only one she was sleeping with, then I could see the $280, but she does'nt even know who the father is. The fact that she is out getting pregnant from who know's what guy, at the same time has a kid sitting at home, and has a $280 electricity bill that she is trying to pawn off on someone when she does'nt even know if he is the father makes her the "irresponsible whore" that she is!