thanks for your input peoples. ive been a right c77t about it to her. wondering if we should keep it or not now, i love kids (i only just found this out) but she's just turned 20, i'm 28 and we're already fighting over it all, i really dont wanna address the issue, we had a pretty hard weekend of partying in there recently, i doubt any bunch of cells in there yet has a brain to do damage to, but if it does we sure hit it hard, we believe in giving our kid(s) every chance at life so no drinking or anything whilst knocked up, we already f88ked that up.