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A serious note to bros in good relationships

Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
 
kx250rider said:
Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
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What? :confused:
 
kx250rider said:
Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
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Good Post braH!

A happy wife is a happy life!
 
my wife always say "whatever, you don't need to get any bigger. your already too big." but i don't see what she is talking about
 
You're still missing the point you self centered MF'r!
It's not all about you & your appreciation for your and her physical attributes. If she's a woman, she emotional and you'd better be prepared to address her emotions or there's still a smoldering ember that will burst into a bonfire at some point. Trust me, I know.
 
Are you a narcissist?
What did you say or do to make your wife feel this way?
Women forgive but never forget.
 
kx250rider said:
Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
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good post :)
 
after my wife tells me i'm a nerd cuz i wanna be slightly bigger she always follows it up with "but it doesn't matter because i still love you the same." but i show gratitude when things get done around the house.
 
good post Charles. There are many things in life far more important than BBing and how big and ripped we can get or how much we can lift. Health, family and relationships are bigger priorities than any of these, and people should always try to keep that in perspective.
 
marriage is not just all about sex.............there are more cool juices in it, and also there re times couples go through fire and rain, and there is no time, or feelings for sexxxxxx ...........sex also can not be used as something to bribe your opposite in order to maintain a a faithful and fruitful relationship
 
kx250rider said:
Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
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i tell my girl i like the way her eyes look because i can see my reflection in them
 
DannoMight said:
well i'm open to back or legs. i may be going out to test my buddy's boat out friday. there is decent sized lake about 2 miles from my house.
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ooh, i did deads yesterday were on diff bodyparts but lets lift when we match up again

iv been going

chest/bis
legs/traps
off
shoulders/tris
back/legs
off
repeat


are u gunna waterski
 
Sub-Zero said:
ooh, i did deads yesterday were on diff bodyparts but lets lift when we match up again

iv been going

chest/bis
legs/traps
off
shoulders/tris
back/legs
off
repeat


are u gunna waterski
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were just testing the boat out for now. its a little big for the lake but we got tubes for now. gonna get skis and wakeboards but i'm sure i will fail several times over before i get it right. haven't ski'd in over 10 years.
 
DannoMight said:
were just testing the boat out for now. its a little big for the lake but we got tubes for now. gonna get skis and wakeboards but i'm sure i will fail several times over before i get it right. haven't ski'd in over 10 years.
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tubings funnest anyway, just be lazy and grab on
 
kx250rider said:
Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles
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I give my wife at least one compliment every morning as she leaves for work. Its all in the delivery. Little confidence boosters for the day. She appreciates it I'm sure.

I'll have to experiment and talk about myself more and see what kind of reaction I get.
 
EnderJE said:
She's a fatty, isn't she?
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That's not what I was thinking, but what I was going to say is along those lines.

If she's getting all mememememe and is butthurt about you not commenting on her physique, I have to ask: has she earned the compliments or not? Is she working out and making improvements just like you are (or alternately, maintaining an already stellar physique), or is she doing nothing looking average and expecting you to compliment her anyways? Because if it's the latter...you have nothing to feel bad about.
 
canadianhitman said:
That's not what I was thinking, but what I was going to say is along those lines.

If she's getting all mememememe and is butthurt about you not commenting on her physique, I have to ask: has she earned the compliments or not? Is she working out and making improvements just like you are (or alternately, maintaining an already stellar physique), or is she doing nothing looking average and expecting you to compliment her anyways? Because if it's the latter...you have nothing to feel bad about.
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There is always something to compliment a woman on.
 
Captain FT said:
I love my wife more than anything, just not her whole family, stupid dog, and fucking fish up in my grill in one house.
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Any complainers? Not meaning strictly a female, but in your case since you are the only dude, anyone bitching more than the others?

That would suck.
 
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