A serious note to bros in good relationships

[KillahBee]

Fuck that, my girl provides the KB-appreciation, I don't need to do that shit myself. Vice versa.

 

[DannoMight]

after my wife tells me i'm a nerd cuz i wanna be slightly bigger she always follows it up with "but it doesn't matter because i still love you the same." but i show gratitude when things get done around the house.

 

[grubd]

no one has done it yet?!? I'll do it.... she's cheating on you bro!

 

[miplank]

Did you tell her those 3 hours she spent nagging you could've been better spent doing laundry and cleaning the house?

 

[ceo]

good post Charles. There are many things in life far more important than BBing and how big and ripped we can get or how much we can lift. Health, family and relationships are bigger priorities than any of these, and people should always try to keep that in perspective.

 

[BMenterprise]

marriage is not just all about sex.............there are more cool juices in it, and also there re times couples go through fire and rain, and there is no time, or feelings for sexxxxxx ...........sex also can not be used as something to bribe your opposite in order to maintain a a faithful and fruitful relationship

 

[KillahBee]

lmao at people getting lost in bodybuilding. lollllllllll

 

[Sub-Zero]

Sometimes I get carried away with my own progress, and I say or do things that show it. My wife and I had a 3 hour talk last night about this. My marriage is by far more important to me that my body and my appearance or accomplishments. Evidently, I had been making comments about myself, and forgot to acknowledge my wife. She is a great woman, and she supports me 100% in my sport, and she would never want me to do any less with my life. But the flip side of that, is that she might not show it if I'm a little too much into myself, and by the time I find out I was doing it, her feelings are hurt. And that's not good.

Bottom line is; if you're in a good relationship, remember you need to appreciate your partner's physique equally with your own, or there will be ignored emotions and hurt feelings one way or the other.

It's all good now, but I thought I should say something here, as self-appreciation is part of the reasons some of us are in this sport (and passion), in most cases. Don't get carried away on yourself. In stead of complaining to you wife that your pecs are not quite as squared as you want them, just tell her that you love the way her (whatever is your favorite part on her) looks.

All that I just said applies to those of us in good relationships... If you're a player, that's different.

Charles

i tell my girl i like the way her eyes look because i can see my reflection in them

 

[Sub-Zero]

my wife always say "whatever, you don't need to get any bigger. your already too big." but i don't see what she is talking about

shes lyin!

 

[DannoMight]

shes lyin!

i know. she wants me to be a monster. i mean i wouldn't mind if my knuckles were draggin a lil more than they are already.