so I'm in the hog house...

[blueta2]

we don't know if the problem is his, her, or a combination of both of theirs. we know in shrizl's eyes, it's his problem, he has no reason to be insecure, etc she's never cheated. but that doesn't mean that in the context of their relationship, interactions and dynamic, he doesn't have a reason to feel insecure. how do we know? shrizl might not even realize it. that's all I'm saying. and just because she has never actually cheated, doesn't mean she doesn't hang out with these guys because she likes and enjoys the attention she gets. maybe that's why the husband is uncomfortable.

This was my thinking years ago.....are you a medium?! How did you know this

Exactly though. I feel pretty ashamed of this and feel bad I hurt my ex at the time

 

[blueta2]

Very well said

thanks and p.s. love your avi and welcome back hug

 

[bigmann245]

thanks and p.s. love your avi and welcome back hug

Thank you, its good to be back. Thank you for the compliment.

 

[shirlene29]

a lot of people can not so respectfully...fuck off in this thread

some grains of truth from some peeps and some point of views I honestly hadn't considered and some REAL wild stabs in the dark that are pretty off base

I dont whore myself out, thank you very much
I dont whore out attention from dudes
I dont actually see this guy at work every day ..we used to be in the same department where he was actually my superior..now we don't
and I sure as hell don't make a point of making my spouse uncomfortable

 

[shirlene29]

oh...and not many chicks wanna hang with me and talk about guns, dogs, emergency medicine, cars, hot rods, motorcycles or art

I cant even begin to fathom the fascination with shopping , purses, makeup or shoes
and I dont actually know a single woman in person that weight lifts

 

[needtogetaas]

Lmao

 

[bigmann245]

a lot of people can not so respectfully...fuck off in this thread

some grains of truth from some peeps and some point of views I honestly hadn't considered and some REAL wild stabs in the dark that are pretty off base

I dont whore myself out, thank you very much
I dont whore out attention from dudes
I dont actually see this guy at work every day ..we used to be in the same department where he was actually my superior..now we don't
and I sure as hell don't make a point of making my spouse uncomfortable

Im sorry I should have stated my statement was in general of how I would have felt if it were my girl who went out. I dont know you and I shouldnt pass judgement. I believe you are a good person and it never even came across my mind of you being what you listed above. Your a good person.

 

[Musclemama]

oh...and not many chicks wanna hang with me and talk about guns, dogs, emergency medicine, cars, hot rods, motorcycles or art

I cant even begin to fathom the fascination with shopping , purses, makeup or shoes
and I dont actually know a single woman in person that weight lifts

We're a great match shirl ! All my gfs are more like "guys" too . I can't relate much to girly girls . No offense to anyone who is . Give me some weights and a Harley and I'm happy .

 

[blueta2]

oh...and not many chicks wanna hang with me and talk about guns, dogs, emergency medicine, cars, hot rods, motorcycles or art

I cant even begin to fathom the fascination with shopping , purses, makeup or shoes
and I dont actually know a single woman in person that weight lifts

I'm a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed!

I talk about cars, art, animals, and I lift weights. But I also have my chick side where I love to shop (not talk about it) and I do have a love of the shoes.
But I am too old for you, so we would also have to talk about Geritol, polident and Led Zeppelin ;-)

 

[zwhit]

lol @ divorce being mentioned

I seriously doubt this was divorce worthy